The Design of God in Marriage

We are going to talk today about how God has designed marriage for a particular task.  It is a tool that he uses to teach us to love by serving.  The song, Love is a Many Splendored Thing, alludes to the idea of a precious gem.  It has many different facets and as you look at each facet from different angles you see different beauty in it.  In a similar way, love bears many different names when viewed from many different angles.  In this way, I would say that serving really is another word for love.  When we desire the well being of another person, we will serve them in many ways.  The response of love always takes on a particular form depending upon the situation.  So that when a young child errs in skill, a parent's love will "Help" them.  Helping really is a form of love.  However, when a young child errs in ethics, love may respond by correction and eventually discipline.  Thus Correcting and Discipline are different forms of love.  In case you have negative feelings associated with these two words, please understand that all good things can be abused.  What I am talking about is that which is truly motivated by love.

Today we are going to start in Genesis 2:18-25.

Marriage is God's Idea

Now as we look at this section we first notice that Adam did not lodge a complaint with God.  "Hey, God, I don't have a mate.  Why don't you do something about that."  Just as Adam himself was God's idea, so too was Adam's wife, Eve.  In an age when it is popular to despise the human race and wish for a world where humans did not exist, it is important to remind ourselves that humans were God's idea.  However, God first creates Adam without any other humans.  He is not technically alone- there are animals, and God to keep him company- but he is alone.  We don't know if Adam felt lonely but we do know that God purposefully made Adam to be alone before he gained a companion.  God didn't do this with the animals.  Now how long Adam was alone is not stated here, but from the overall creation account it appears that later that day Eve is created.  When Eve is finally presented to Adam she is called his wife.  This was the first marriage and the beginning of the concept that a man and a woman would come together to be one.

Not only is marriage God's idea, but I also want us to see that God purposefully created humans with a complementary design.  This is true both physically and emotionally.  This complementary design practically forces us to come together in many different ways: socially, professionally, sexually, and protectively.  God seems to have designed aspects to humanity, in which, no individual has all of them.  From a gender standpoint he made men and women, male and female.  There is an evident physical design and generally a comparable internal compelling that awakens at a certain age.  It is clear from creation that God could have made us androgynous and we could have procreated asexually.  But this would not have fit his purposes.  But this is not true only on a physical basis.  From brains to brawn, and from introvert to extrovert God has made us to "need" each other socially.  All of us, even the most talented, are not an island unto themselves.  We have been created to link with other humans.  The most intimate link of course is marriage.

I will take a brief moment to mention that the founding father's of our nation (U.S.A.) understood a concept called Natural Law.  They believed that by looking at nature (its design and function) you could see the mind and plan of God.  Such laws would govern all of nature and be truly universal.  Thus Natural Law would argue that the physical design of a man and woman clearly demonstrates that God intended men and women to to be intimate with one another.  Therefore, Natural Law would dictate that a man and a woman have the right to come together in an intimate relationship that we call marriage.  Now, further we can deduce from the fact that they are two separate beings that they should both be free to self-determine who the other partner will be.  Thus a man and a woman have the right to marry whom they will, as long as that other person agrees.  I take time to mention this because the current "Gay Marriage" debate that is happening in our country itself flies in the face of both Natural Law and Biblical Revelation.  It is clear from design and function that a man was not meant to be intimate with a man and neither for a woman to be intimate with a woman.  Thus Natural Law would not dictate that they have the right to be intimate with one another.  Also, we have an even higher statement from God himself revealed in Scripture that it is not what he intended.  Thus God tells us what he intended both explicitly (in the Bible) and implicity (in the design and function of men and women).

Now, as I said, it is clear that marriage was God's idea and he was the one who provided the answer for Adam.  In fact, God, as the Creator of everything, is the great provider of all that we could lack.  We often talk about miracles as if they are from God and everything else is from nature.  Nope, it is all from God.  Isn't nature just an infinite amount of miracles that God did in advance and have been waiting around for thousands of years till you could experience them?  All aid and help ultimately comes from the Lord, whether there is a "natural" explanation or not.

Now God knew Adam was alone and would become lonely.  So he creates Eve.  Here we have the first surgery, which is performed by God himself.  The Bible doesn't go into the specifics of why God pulled a rib out of Adam and somehow made Eve from it.  He could have made Eve from the dirt just like he did Adam.  But instead, God wanted Adam to have a clear illustration that he was missing a part of himself, and Eve would be the way to have it back.  In fact, it could be better than the rib.  God here becomes the Father of the bride as he brings Eve to Adam.

We can also see how the design of procreation puts kids in the care of a man and woman who created them within a loving relationship.  This ability to bring into the world other humans is a gift from God. Even though we may be able to go around the design through technology, this will not remove the hard-wired need to be in relationship with someone.  However, notice how a child goes from clinging to parents to one day separating from them.  A child when it is young is vulnerable and clearly is not designed to take care of itself.  If humans abandon their young at birth then the baby will die.  All of this comes from God and was his design and fits his purposes in our life.

Next week we will focus more on that purpose.  But let it suffice to say that we may abuse marriage and misuse it.  We may fight against the things it is trying to do in our life.  In that sense we are fighting against the purposes of God.  Marriage was designed to help man know himself better (I am selfish and proud in heart) and know God better (God is a loving servant and humble in heart).

Could A Job Be The Oldest Institution?

Bible passage:  Genesis 2:7-9,15 and Genesis 3:17-19

Next week we are going to be talking about marriage and how God uses it to teach us to lovingly serve.  Marriage has been noted as an institution that is so old that God is the one who started it in the Garden of Eden.  Well there is another institution that God started in the garden and, in fact, he started it before he started marriage:  a job.  Yes that's right.  You heard me correctly.  God gave Adam a job before he gave him a wife.

The reason I want to start here is because it is important for us to understand that these things are not just the ideas of men.  It has come from the mind of God. 

Man Was Created to Work.  It is not Bad or Evil.

God didn't just plop Adam in the "wild" (Survivor-style), but rather, he made one place into a garden.  We are not told how large this place was.  But it was already ordered and fixed up by God himself.  After describing this garden and the rivers that watered it, Genesis 2:15 tells us this:

 "Then the LORD God took the man and put him in the garden of Eden to tend and keep it."

These words are very clear that God intended Adam to work and labor in this garden.  Even before the fall, the earth needed to be worked in order for it to give greater and more regular produce.  It also makes clear that Adam needed to take care of the garden and nurture it.  I don't know if God discussed the finer points of pruning with Adam, but the idea of care is clear.  Thus Adam was put in an area that could clearly sustain himself and his future family.  God already had in mind that Adam would "be fruitful and multiply," and fill the earth.  The garden would serve as the base of operations for this endeavor.  Also this job would clearly be for his own benefit and the benefit of his family.  As humans they would need to eat and taking care of the garden would ensure a plentious supply of food.

Thus the first job was given by God to a man before The Fall.  The first job involved work.  So if you have this idea that when we go to heaven we will not have to work anymore you are probably wrong.  Though work itself is not a result of the curse, our work was affected by the curse.  In Genesis 3:17-19 we see that God does not directly curse Adam.  In other words, he didn't make his muscles smaller or his intellect dumber.  Rather he indirectly curses Adam by putting a curse on the earth.  The ground that he has been working will no longer work with him as it was designed to do.  Rather, it will resist along with the other aspects of nature.  We do not know scientifically what God did to change the world, but clearly all of creation was affected.  Because of The Fall, work now would be difficult and filled with grief and sorrow.  This is why we labor with this sense that things are fighting against us.  We might inwardly think, "God, what do you have against me?"  But, this is only partially right.  Yes, God did put the curse on the earth.  But before we blame him we must ask why he did so.  It was our action that caused the curse to be given.  We have no one to blame but ourself and to stubbornly persist in blaming God is itself wrong.  Even people who seem to have no problem at work and everything goes well are fighting a resistance.  They may be overcoming that resistance better than us.  But, still, they deal with it.  We all have to deal with a world that is not cooperating with us to the fullest degree.  We talk of "Murphy's Law" because we recognize this principle to be true.

Many large corporations will develop complex systems and procedures to minimize the affects of the curse.  But as you develop these systems and procedures you realize that the resistance comes from somewhere else and generally is of a greater nature.  You cannot get rid of it.

Now here is the good news.  The Bible tells us in Romans 8:18-23 that God had a purpose in making our work more difficult.  Vs. 20 tells us that God subjected  the creation to futility in the hope of a coming deliverance.  The curse would continually remind us of where "our way" has taken us.  It will continually lift our eyes to heaven in prayer for a day that the curse would be lifted.  In fact God has promised such a day for us.  Any parent who punishes a child for misbehavior does not do so forever.  There is a certain learning that must happen and then the punishment can be lifted.  Mankind has done much labor over these millennia that we have had.  During that labor God is trying to teach us something about ourselves, our thinking, our need of Him, and His promise to us.  Just as the First Adam was created a living being so Jesus, the Second Adam, came forth as a life-giving spirit.  When we embrace Jesus as God's "solution" or answer to our condition, we become a son of God.  The revelation of these "sons of God" will happen at a time when the curse is removed.  In fact, Paul said in verse 18:

"I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us."

Yes, God knows that presently work is difficult, life is difficult.  In the midst of much we could call good, we are surrounded by that which makes things sorrowful and grievous.  In fact, we ourselves are often the source of such grief.  But a day is coming when a glory will be revealed in those who belong to God.  In that day we will look back at the time of our suffering as a light thing which is easy to take, in light of the joy and glory we will have then.  Now this might not make you FEEL better today.  But it does give us a hope.  A hope that is based upon God himself.

Some Lessons of Work

 So if work is supposed to be teaching me things about myself and God then perhaps I should pay more attention to what it is saying.  There is no way that we can exhaust this subject, but I believe it would be helpful to walk through some of those "teachings" that work and jobs try to teach us.

Let's first look at the area of "Working for Yourself."  The ultimate of life to be self-empoyed and not have to answer to any boss.  However, if you have ever "worked for yourself" you know that it is a bit of a misnomer because somehow others are always involved in our work.  If you are providing a service or product to a customer, you learn pretty quickly that, even though you don't have a "boss," the customer, their wants and desires, take on a much more vague and harder to read "boss-like" influence in your life.  The statement that the customer is always right, is of course untrue.  But it demonstrates the pickle in which self-employed people find themselves.  The difficulties of a job are teaching us something about life and sin and people.  Even if we put a person out in the wilderness with a farm only working for themselves, we still will find that work teaches us something.  It will teach you that you can't do everything.  Many who are gifted in one area have huge gaps of skill in other areas.  At some point you will see that if you tailor your work to fit with the work of others, then you can help each other.  In all of this work teaches us to serve each other, and to serve together.

When you work for a boss you better learn your own duty to God.  And, when you work to serve a customer, you come to understand God's care for us better.  In no way is this teaching process perfect.  People labor long not learning these things.  So I encourage you to pay attention and give greater focus to what life is saying to you through your work.

Another area to look at is how Jesus and the disciples used jobs in their teachings.  The parables of Jesus are full of good and bad examples of workers.  They are intended to warn us about how we live and work in this life.  He used these work scenarios as a picture of us spiritually being held accountable to our heavenly boss, God the Almighty Father.  

In 2 Thessalonians 3:10-12, Paul warns them, "If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat."  Early Christians were very strong in loving each other and caring for each others needs.  It didn't take long for some to attempt to take advantage of such largesse.  Paul made it clear that though we serve people, it is no service to do for them what they ought to do for themselves.  Thus if a man works hard and yet for various reasons is not making it or, his boss rips him off etc..., believers will help each other and meet those needs.  But if a man doesn't work at all and keeps showing up at your house or church office desiring a hand out then at some point you realize, I am not truly helping this person.  For their own good I have to say no.

In 1 Timothy 5:8 Paul says that those who do not provide for their family have denied The Faith and are worse than an unbeliever.  Those are very strong words.  Now let me make sure you understand them.  The word provide here is not about success and ability.  It is a word that is about intention and desire.  It literally means "to look out for, to look ahead for."  Thus you may be working your head off and your kids don't have very nice clothes.  You may say to yourself, "I'm not a very good provider."  And, thus believe that you aren't a very good follower of God.  But throughout history Christians have been in many different situations.  In some of them Christians were very poor and couldn't provide in the sense of creating a certain quality of life.  But there are more important things then designer clothing, and latest tech fads.  A believer looks out for every aspect of their family.  It is about diligent, desire and work not the amount of paycheck you get for that.  Let me give a good example of what Paul is talking about.  If a man who has a business finds out that his senior parent has had a stroke and the believers in his community are taking care of him then he decides not to step in and shoulder that responsibility, he is denying the faith of Christ.  Another example, if a man spends all his money at the bar and casino and his family goes without then he is denying the faith.  In fact we could feed our kids the best food and give them the greatest toys, but if we do not teach them spiritually about God and life, we are denying the faith.

Now I am going to end with some rapid fire lessons from the book of Proverbs.

1. Prov. 12:11-  Put work before fantasy and play.
2. Prov. 1:30f-  Reject quick money schemes, and instead work hard and diligently.
3. Prov. 6:6f-  Don't be lazy.  Get out of bed and work.
4. Prov. 22:7-  Borrowing is not a good thing.
5. Prov. 21:17-  Don't consume all your work, save for the future.
6. Prov. 15:22-  Get good advice from multiple sources about work and life.
7. Prov. 19:2-  Work steady and careful.  Haste makes waste.

 In the end we all need to be careful and listen to what our work is teaching us.  Every time something goes wrong or bat at work or in our plans at life, we should spend some time trying to figure out what it is teaching us.  It is a mistake to say, "God must hate me, I'm no good.  I should just quit."  When we have this attitude of offense we will shortcut ourselves from learning what God wants to teach us.

Instead, as a son to a father, we need to ask, "God, what are you telling me about you and mankind's fallen condition?  And, what are you telling me about myself?  And, what are you telling me about the future hope to which you are bringing us?"  The answers are not always readily apparent.  Sometimes we see it better in the rearview mirror.  Either way we must remain focused and do the work that God has gifted us to do because it will teach us the depths of loving service.

The Weapon of Love

Last week we looked at how Jesus served Zacchaeus by seeking him out and saving him.  Today I want to explore this concept further as we recognize that this was not just a Search and Rescue operation.  The metaphor of search and rescue is a good and powerful picture.  However, today we are going to use the military metaphor of trying to take a city, or position on the battle field.  It may seem strange to think of this in the context of serving and loving another person.  But, this is imagery that God himself has given us.

Proverbs 18:19 says, "A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city and contentions are like the bars of a castle."

The word "offended" is literally sinned against.  Someone has done something wrong to him.  The word contentions obviously refers back to these sins, but it is a term that is reminiscent of the "charges" in a case at trial.  Each specific charge of wrong doing is like an individual bar or crossbeam in a castle door.  This interesting verse demonstrates something that we all know to be true to human nature.  When we are sinned against we retreat and barricade ourself from further hurt.  This can take on as many forms as their are individual personalities to do it.

Let me ask you a bit of trivia.  What city was Zacchaeus at when he met Jesus?..........(insert Jeopardy music here.....)  Times up!  The city was Jericho.  What is Jericho famous for in Scripture?  Jericho is the city of the extremely unorthodox military maneuver of simply marching around your enemy and shouting to God.  Now the city of Jericho was an actual enemy of Israel that needed to be defeated.  But the reason I bring it up is because there is a kind of "hint" here by the Holy Spirit.  The clear message is this: the battle belongs to the Lord.  If we "fight" as the Lord directs us we will see victory.  Now in the context Zacchaeus is cleary a man who has retreated into his castle and built up a fortress against the hurts and wounds of his own people.  If your goal is to get him to repent of his sins and become a devout God follower then you have a battle set out for you.  But Jesus approaches Zacchaeus with grace and love.  We don't see him beating Zach over the head with his sins.  He merely spends the day with him.  Perhaps some words are said in private, but notice the gracious and kind way that Jesus approaches Zach.  Jesus is involved in a different kind of "warfare."  A battle that will not be won by a head on attempt to break down Zach's "walls."  In fact, no matter how skilled we can be at demolishing people's arguments of why they need a wall, in the end we will only have succeeded in causing them to retreat further and make the walls thicker.  But to use love as a weapon...that is our challenge.

Here is the challenge.  People build barriers in their life to protect against past and potential sins.  We all do this.  But God has called us to break down those barriers, enter into fellowship with each other and become a family.  How can we get past all these walls?  Learning to demolish strongholds is not easy and few are truly good at it.  We can be a "legend in our own mind." But the truth of the matter is this.  We are going to have to do more than talk about love, and make weak overtures of love.  We are going to have to see this as a battle.  Just like a general doesn't quit when his first, second, and third attempt to take a position or city fails, we too must often endure insults in order to break past the walls of hurt and injury.

In God all things are possible and by love we can get past the defenses of wounds and hurt in order to touch people's hearts with love.

We are Commanded to Love

 After Jesus had washed his disciples' feet, he then commanded them in verses 34,35 of John 13 to love one another.  It is important to notice that Christ's command to us is something that he is not commanded to do.  Even if we say that he was obeying the orders of the Father, my point is essentially this.  Who has commanded God to command us?  The answer is no one.  You see the command to us is part of God's heart.  Let us not be deceived we are under orders to love one another.  In that sense we have no excuse if we do not obey.  Sure we have a choice, but not an excuse.  Yet, God's desire is not that we continue to only see this as a drudgery that he has put on us.  Rather he desires for our hearts to become like his.  When our hearts and minds come into agreement with this action of love it is no longer about duty and command it is simply about the heart of God.

This is why it is important to notice the "If" that Jesus uses in verse 35.  "All will know you are my disciples, IF you have love for one another."  We have a choice and our heart and mind are not always convinced.  So Jesus sets the example not only here, but when he goes to the cross.  The cross is the ultimate expression of the heart of God.  "I love you so much I am willing to die (to the point that is possible) in order to love you."  We do not do this perfectly as individuals.  But neither do we do this as groups and communities.  No matter what church or family we are a part of Christ calls us to serve them with his love.  This is not an easy task even without the problem of a sinful nature.

Later in his life the apostle John clearly reflects on this situation when he writes in 1 John 2:3-11 that he is not giving them a new command when he commands them to love one another.    Yes, it was a new command when Jesus was making it and was the message of the church for decades, "We are commanded to love one another."  By the time of the writing of First John this new command is seen as the same old command we have proclaimed all along, from the beginning of the gospel and of the church.

We must love one another.  No matter what we call ourselves, this is the central duty.  However, the duty is intended to teach us the heart of God and transform us from servants to friends, from enemies to family.

Lessons of Love

 God has designed life that it forces us to face certain lessons of love.  We can ignore them or even be oblivious to them, but they are real and present nonetheless.  The proverb that we quoted earlier mentions that contentions are like the bars of a castle.  The first lesson of love I want to point out is this: In order to wield love we must drop our "bloody flags," our contentions.  Someone has to start.  When two people are offended, they are both concerned that the other person fixes their stuff first.  So much so, that we are often oblivious to even half of our own infractions.  This barred castle picture will never change if someone doesn't unbar their door.  Who could be more offended in this world then God himself?  Our rebellion against our creator and abuse of his stuff (creation/material world) is itself a capital crime.  Yet the offended God, unbars his heart and his home (heaven).  He then comes down into our world and loves us.  He loves us to the point that he lays his life down for us that we might live.  Do you understand that this is the heart of the one we say we love?  I cannot love what Jesus does for me for very long if how Jesus did it is offensive to me.  Let me say it another way.  If you despise the path of dying that others might live for yourself then you probably do not love Jesus nearly as much as you let on.  I am not saying this to "disqualify" people.  I am saying that we might be honest with ourself and realize that I need to submit to love so that my heart can change.  We can be a baffle to the love of God or we can allow it to freely flow through us.  What will you be?  God is seeking forgiveness and restoration.  Thus, so must we.

The second lesson of love that we will look at today is this:  We must stop expecting certain responses to our "love" attempts.  When we choose to drop our contentions (forgiveness) and love another person, we can easily get offended that they don't "roll over" so easy.  Just like a guy who asks a girl out for a date may get rejected the first time, do we give up easily?  How bad do you want to be like Jesus?  We are called to love regardless of whether the person being loved responds.  What if they retreat further and bar themselves even more?  They have made a poor choice, but you were obedient to your Lord.  Perhaps you in those moments are given a touch of what God goes through every day when countless millions bar their hearts to him.

The third lesson of love today is this:  We must analyze the lies that the enemy has entrenched in the other person's mind and work to neutralize them.  Many people are hard and cold as a protection.  They have been hurt.  Often they feel unloveable, unworthy, shamed and guilty.  Perhaps they are nursing an anger and rage against injustice, which gives them the only worth that they can see.  In any case, when we attempt to love them, our attempts may have an ignorance to them that can accentuate those hurts.  Let me share an real life illustration of this.

A new pastor comes to a church and one day is giving an altar call.  He notices that a woman of the church is weeping and yet isn't coming up.  Wanting to encourage her the pastor goes down to where she is and takes her by the arm and pulls her up to the altar area.  Then several elders surround her and begin praying.  The lady essentially has a break down, screams and runs out.  What happened?  Of course the pastor is shocked, elders are shocked, the church is shocked.  What????  Here is the rest of the story.  Later the woman shares with the pastor what she was feeling at the time.  Her quick story is that as a little girl she was raped by her grandfather several times.  Later as a young girl a boyfriend also abused her.  She had never shared this with anyone and this hurtful history was affecting her marriage and ability to interact with people.  How do you think she felt when a man comes and pulls her to where she doesn't want to go and then is surrounded by a bunch of men?  We can get offended at how the hurting respond or we can let them teach us how to love.

Often, if we knew the whole story we might have more compassion, sensitivity, and gentleness.  But you will never get the whole story from people unless you have compassion, sensitivity and gentleness up front.  We tend to think of those who are not emotionally hurt as the strong ones that we all need to be like.  But perhaps God allows wounded people in order to teach "strong" people how to be gentle and loving.  Perhaps God's goal is not for the strong to teach the weak how to quit being weak.  But, rather, for the weak to teach the strong how to carefully assist another, like their Father in heaven does.  There is none as strong and powerful as our God and yet none so humble, meek and gentle.

Friend, if you have been deeply wounded in life and don't think you have any worth, understand this: You have much to teach others in how to love.  You were not meant to hide behind bars of protective wood and iron.  Let the Lord himself be your defense and lay down those bars.  Yes, it is not easy and you will fail over and over again.  But be strong and courageous for the Lord your God is with you.

The Weapon of Love

The Ultimate Service: to Seek and Save

There are many different kinds of Search and Rescue Teams that exist.  They are generally differentiated by either terrain or climate.  Thus we have Mountain S&R Teams, Ground, Canine, Urban, Air-Sea, Snow, Desert and even Combat S&R Teams.  These teams have learned through trial and error procedures that will enable them to have the greatest possible chance of saving a person.   Even as dedicated and trained as they can be, they are never 100% successful in "saving" everyone.

Today, we are going to look at a story in Luke 19 about a man named Zacchaeus (Za-key-us).  We'll call him Zach for short.  Here we are going to see that Jesus is a team leader on the greatest Search and Rescue operation of all time, the Earth Search and Rescue Team.  Jesus makes this clear as he states in Luke 19:10, "The Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost."

Zacchaeus was lost and captive

 The account starts out by telling us that Zach was a chief Tax-collector and he was rich.  Now men back then, no different from today, didn't like taxes.  It was probably even more resentful when a guy would show up at your door telling you that you need to cough up X amount of dollars (shekels) right now.  These guys were despised.  Also, Zach was a chief tax-collector.  He was a head ringleader of these money grubbers.  Also, the tax-collectors often lined their pockets by collecting more than was due.  John the Baptist referred to this in Luke 3:13 when he warned the tax-collectors that they needed to repent by only charging what was due.  We also see later in verse 8 that it was common to lie about what was owed, a false accusation.  The fact that Zach was rich implies that he was good at getting more out of people than was required.  People hated him for it and he was not a welcome part of their society.  In fact, it is bad enough already, but Zach was collecting taxes for a foreign, conquering power aka Rome.  He was working for the enemy, a regular Benedict Arnold.

On top of this he has a name that means, "pure one."  Yep, I'm sure Zach that was salt in people's wounds.  But Zach, no doubt, had his own wounds.  It mentions that he was so short that he had to climb a tree to be able to see Jesus.  Anyone who has gone through life with something that makes you weaker or less than most of the rest can identify with Zach.  He no doubt had his own wounds from childhood and adulthood.  All the countless ways that he perhaps had been ridiculed and pushed away by those who were "better".  Whatever he had in his life, it had prepared him to take a job that would use the power of a foreign governement to get rich off of his own people.  Zach was a lost man.  He was cutoff and separated from his people, but he was also cutoff and separated from his God.

But here was the kicker, Zach knew he was missing something.  Zach wasn't happy.  He was seeking to find out if there was anything different about this Jesus guy who was creating such a stir.  Something in Zach was crying out for help, looking for help.  He even humbled himself enough to publically come see Jesus and climb a tree where everyone would see him.

Jesus Sought Him Out and Saved Him

 Who was seeking whom that day?  Clearly Zach sought Jesus to get a better understanding of who he was.  But Jesus was also seeking Zach as he testified in verse 10.  Here is the greater point.  God's business is seeking out and saving that which is lost.  It is a Terrestrial Search and Rescue mission.  Jesus understood this and was "about his Father's business."  Jesus was on the look out and when he saw Zach he knew this was a guy who was in trouble, but wanted help.

Now this brings up the Principle of Personal Responsibility.  It is easy to see what the other guy should have done and to shift the blame to them.  But in the end we all are responsible for what we have done.  As I earlier talked about Zach's life, it would be easy to blame everything on society, or to blame everything on Zach.  If you are Zach you blame society and those who have wounded and rejected you.  If you are those being taxed then you blame Zach for all his errors and sins.   It is easy for a lost person to say, "someone should have sought me out."  That would be true, but that is not Zach's responsibility.  His responsibility as a lost person is to recognize that he is lost, stop walking and start calling for help.  Many a lost person has refused to cry out for help and though others should have sought them out, they still are responsible to recognize they need help.  Those cries are not always audible, but they are real none the less and Jesus saw the cry of Zach's heart that day.  He wanted free.  On the other hand, those who are "found" have the responsibility to look for those who are lost.  We have a responsibility to be about our father's business.

Now Jesus responds in a very tender and gracious way to Zach and I think we could learn a lot from him.

1. Jesus SAW Zach.  It is easy to miss people because we are too busy or focused on something else.  Jesus saw Zach and that made all the difference in the world.  When you are on a Search and Rescue Team seeing the person or some evidence of where they have been is critical to saving them.  Jesus saw Zach.  Do I have personal blinders on that keep me from seeing lost people who need saving?  People who are crying out for help, but I'm to busy to notice or care?
2. Jesus ENGAGED Zach.  Jesus didn't just see him, but then he made room in his schedule for Zach.  He stopped and talked with Zach and planned to spend as much time with Zach as Zach would let him.  Do we sometimes see people, but choose to not engage them.  Or do we sometimes engage them only on a superficial level and only say hi, barely giving them the time of day?  What business are you about anyway?  If we are to be about our father's business we have to engage people.
3. Jesus CALLED HIM BY NAME.  The fact that Jesus took the time to get Zach's name speaks volumes to us and to Zach.  When you are used to people wanting nothing to do with you, this is a huge thing.  Jesus let's him know that he is valuable enough to him that he took the time to get and remember Zach's name.
4. Jesus UNDERSTOOD AND FELT HIS OBLIGATION.  When Jesus said he "must" stay at Zach's house he spoke of a necessity.  He had to do the duty, job that his Father had given him.  However, I believe that Jesus was motivated by more than just an external duty that had been laid upon him.  He cared for Zach and his heart was motivated by the same things that motivated the Father.  Think of it this way.  Why does God want to seek and save that which is lost?  Is it because he has been commanded to do so by some higher god?  Of course not.  Ultimately the duty or command is coming from a heart that desires to find those who are lost and save them.  We may need to start with the external pressure of a command, but God's desire is that we will internalize the heart of that command.  That our obligation is not from the pressure of duty, but the compulsion of love.  Jesus loved Zach and knew that if Zach was to have a chance, Jesus needed to stay at his house that day.  Jesus must stay at his house if he was ever going to be found and saved.

To be saved means to be delivered from those enemies that hold us captive.  What was holding Zach?  Yes the devil had succeeded in separating Zach from the herd and was in the process of devouring him through this life.  However, Zach was just as much a prisoner to his own thinking and mind.  How often do we let the actions, words, and sins of others keep us in a place we don't want to be?  How often do we use the blame of others to stay stuck in a situation our heart cries to be free from?  Jesus broke through all of that by simply loving Zach.  He noticed him and cared enough to be a part of his life.  Zach didn't just have his sins forgiven.  He didn't just get a "get-out-of-jail-free card."  His heart had been so saved from taking advantage of others that now he wanted to make things right.  He was being delivered from that mindset that would want to make others pay for my wounds. 

God help us to see that we have been called to come alongside the greatest Search and Rescue Leader of all time, Jesus.  And, may God help us to sense the obligation we have to those who are lost, not just from the external duty, but even more from the internal compulsion of love.