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Tuesday
May192026

You Shall Receive Power

Acts 1:4-8. This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, May 17, 2026.

Next Sunday is Pentecost Sunday, so we are going to focus on why the outpouring of the Holy Spirit was so important following the resurrection of Jesus.

Let’ s look at our passage.

Power to be a witness

These are the last moments that Jesus is with his disciples before ascending into heaven to sit at the right hand of the Father.  He had earlier given them the mission of taking the good news about his work of salvation to the ends of the earth (Matthew 28:18-20).  Yet now he makes a stipulation about this.  He commands them “not to depart from Jerusalem, but to wait for the Promise of the Father…”

We should notice that Jesus wants us to receive this promise of the Father before we go about the mission he has given us.  It is clear that he is referring to the promise of the outpouring of God’s Spirit upon all believers.

Of course, the very next words out of their mouths are about the Kingdom being restored to Israel.  Is it now, Lord?  Jesus tells them that the Father is not giving that information to them.  They need to focus on receiving the Holy Spirit and accomplishing the mission Jesus has given them.

Notice that the Holy Spirit will give them power, and they will be “my witnesses.”  There are many ways in which the Holy Spirit empowers us.  One of these ways is to make us a powerful witness of Jesus.  In this sense, we are a particular kind of evidence for Jesus, a personal witness.

There are a couple of ways that we are his witnesses.  The first is that we are his witnesses because we give testimony about him.  He is the object that we have witnessed or the content of that to which we are testifying.

The world would not know who Jesus is, what he has done, and why it is so important, without someone who knows about it going to them and telling them.

This is Paul’s point in Romans 10:13-15.  He takes an Old Testament truth, “All who call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved,” and reverse engineers it.  How can people call upon the Lord and be saved if they don’t believe in him?  How are they going to believe in him if they haven’t heard about him?  How will they hear about him if no one tells them?  How can someone tell them if they haven’t been sent?  Jesus is the beginning of this whole series.  He sends all of his disciples to go to the world around them with the good news of his salvation.

They needed to wait because the Holy Spirit was going to be poured out on a particular day, the Feast of Pentecost.  Why that day?  Pentecost was a celebration for the harvest so far and the harvest to come.  In this case, Jesus is bringing in a spiritual harvest of people from Israel and the nations who will hear the good news, believe, and come into his kingdom.

We are also his witnesses in the sense that we belong to him and are doing a work for him.  In fact, Jesus is witnessing to others through us.  This spiritual dimension to our witness should not be overlooked.  It goes beyond you and me.  This witness is more than what we say and do.

When we share God’s terms of salvation with a lost world, it really is the Lord Jesus working through us to draw people to himself.  God can lead us, but He also works beyond us and in ways that we cannot see.  I may be nobody, but some people can only be reached by a nobody who shares the greatest somebody in the universe with them.  Can you be God’s nobody and trust Him to do what you cannot do?  This is part of the empowering of the Holy Spirit.
Jesus truly is sending us with a task, but He is also truly working with us and through us by the Holy Spirit.  The answer is not to shrink back and say that God will do it.  Nor is the answer to try and do it all by yourself.  We must give our all to this mission but also trust the Holy Spirit to do His part.  The job is too big for us in ourselves.  We need the presence of the Holy Spirit in our life to do this.

We are to give witness through what we say

One way in which we are witnesses is by our active vocal testimony.  The Holy Spirit can give us boldness to speak when we are afraid.  We see this with the apostle Peter who was afraid to stand with Christ on the night of his betrayal.  Later, a Spirit-filled Peter would boldly speak in the temple compound, calling his people and Israel’s leaders to repentance.

The Holy Spirit can also help us with giving us the things to say.  The preaching and teaching of the apostles was written down so that we can hear these inspired words.  Yet, the Holy Spirit can give us specific leading in what to say to people.  We need to learn to listen to Him and boldly speak it.

The Holy Spirit can also help in the heart and the mind of the person who receives our testimony.  You may feel His presence and working, but then again, you may not.  The main thing is to trust that the Spirit is always helping even when you don’t see it.

There is a part of our testimony that is not so much ours, but that of the original eyewitnesses to Jesus.  This cannot be reduplicated.  No one alive today can give testimony to seeing Jesus.  Yet, we can pass along this eyewitness testimony.

Tens of thousands of people witnessed the life, teachings, and death of Jesus.  Over 500 people witnessed that Jesus was alive after his death and burial.  Acts 1:3 speaks to the infallible proofs that Jesus gave to these people.  Some of those proofs were simply that he was alive.  Some of those proofs were that he was more than a mortal.  Jesus showed Thomas the crucifixion marks on his body.  They touched him.  He ate fish.  Jesus was not an apparition or spirit.  Yet, he was more than a mortal man.  He appeared and disappeared in their midst when they were locked in a place.  He ascended into the heavens in front of their eyes.  These eyewitness accounts were written down so that they could be verified and used to test others who claimed to have testimony about Jesus.

By the beginning of the 2nd century, the last of those eyewitnesses were dying.  This is why the Bible is so important.  It is an eyewitness record of those who were there.  This is also why the Bible is so attacked in our day and age.  The devil doesn’t like the Bible.  People who love to sin don’t like the Bible.  Even my own flesh turns away from these words without the help of the Holy Spirit.  It is important that we have the help of the Holy Spirit to share the testimony of these Apostles contained in the New Testament.

However, you don’t have to be an eyewitness to experience the spiritual truths that Jesus has made available to us.  We are the spiritual offspring of those original disciples.  Just as the words and work of Jesus transformed their life, so our lives have been transformed by that as well.  Salvation is not simply a legal distinction.  It is a living experience where the Spirit of God transforms our heart and mind.  We go from being a people in slavery to sin to being a people living out the righteousness of Jesus.

The Holy Spirit helps our witness by fueling the transformation of our lives.  This personal transformation also gives zeal and passion to our testimony as well.  In short, we bear witness to the saving power of Jesus.  Jesus truly saves those who believe in him.  He saves them from their sin and failures.  Of course, we see some of that happening right now.  Some of it we will see happening in the future (I’m not perfected yet).  Yet, we are following the Perfect One who is the perfecter of our faith.  Only you can tell the testimony of what faith in Jesus has done for you.  We need to seek the help of the Holy Spirit to empower transformation from the inside out.  Then, we need to share it with others.

We are to give witness by what we do

Our witness is not just by our words.  In fact, we must be careful that our life is not discordant with our words, or the words of our Lord Jesus.  Hypocrisy only interferes with our ability to witness for Jesus.

In this sense, people will see our lives.  Our actions and overall life will testify for us.  Both verbal testimony and demonstration testimony are necessary in our lives.  We cannot do one and neglect the other.

This is why the Bible records the experience and subsequent lives of those who believed in Jesus.  Peter became a man with a spiritual backbone.  Saul of Tarsus became a follower of Jesus who would put his life in jeopardy in order to bring the good news about Jesus to those who had never heard.

This is part of the testimony in their day and age.  Yes, they said things, but their actions and lives powerfully underscored these words.  When Stephen was stoned for giving testimony to the Lord Jesus, it may have scared some people away from following Jesus.  Yet, he was only the first of many who gave testimony with their lives that Jesus was worth losing your physical life.  They faced persecution, torture, and death.  When Saul of Tarsus became a Christian, it shocked everyone.  Some Christians feared that it was a ploy to discover who they all were.  Unbelievers believed that he had gone mad.  However, no one could counter the claim that Saul of Tarsus was no longer who he used to be.  The evidence of his life before and after spoke volumes about the kind of man he used to be and who he became once he believed upon Jesus.

1 Corinthians 6:9-11 says, “9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.”

There is real power working in this.  Many of these Corinthians used to be caught up in various types of sin.  If Jesus had remained in the grave, we would not be reading these words today.  If no one’s life was ever transformed by these words and the Holy Spirit who works through them, we wouldn’t be here today.

A transformed life is our biggest testimony.  It is God’s will for you to be transformed by the truth of His Word and the power of His Holy Spirit.  Thus, we need to expect this, desire this, pray for this, and cooperate with the Holy Spirit as He empowers this in our lives.

We need to pray for the Spirit’s leading in our daily lives.  What are the ways in which I need to be transformed to become more like Jesus?  Only a person who is in the Bible, in prayer, and wrestling with their sinful flesh by the help of the Holy Spirit can give testimony of a life that is being transformed.

May God help us to rest in His gracious work of transformation in our life and to know His peace day by day.

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Monday
May112026

Honor Your Mother

Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:2-3.

This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Mother’s Day Sunday, May 10, 2026.

When it comes to honoring others, we have become a culture that is really bad at it.  It is not that we don’t honor things, but that we do it superficially and in superficial ways.

We love to exalt people as heroes quickly.  We love to idolize them and try to be like them.  However, we also love to tear them down quickly, even crucify them.

The Bible shows us a better way.  Honor is something that comes from God, and we do it best when we do it as He has shown us.

Let’s look at our passages.

We are to honor our mother

There is no way around the Bible’s command to honor our mothers.  Some may challenge that this is part of the Law of Moses in the Old Testament, and we are not under the law.

This same argument is used in a different form when atheists accuse Christians of picking which laws in the Old Testament they follow and which ones they don’t.

This is not what Christianity is doing.  In fact, this represents an intellectually dishonest or lazy attempt at summing up the New Testament.  The New Testament writers are very clear on why some laws from the Old Testament are still given to Christians and why others are not.

To honor your mother (and father) is not part of the dietary laws, i.e., which foods you can or can’t eat.  The dietary laws were not given because of something inherently bad about certain foods.  They were given as a spiritual teaching aid.  Acts 10 shows us exactly why Christians do not continue the dietary laws.  The death and resurrection of Jesus provided for the cleansing of all people (Jews and Gentiles).  This was the spiritual reality that the dietary laws represented. 

The ritual and sacrificial laws were also fulfilled in the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross.  Christians offer spiritual sacrifices to God, but we do not try to build temples and sacrifice animals.  Jesus is our once-and-for-all perfect sacrifice.

There is one more category of laws in the Old Testament, moral laws.  Murder did not become acceptable for Christians because they are no longer “under the law of Moses.”  Murder is always wrong, and so is dishonoring your parents.  These are moral issues that have selfish motivations surfacing from our hearts.

Throughout the New Testament, the apostles reiterate (like Paul does in Ephesians 6:2-3) these moral laws.  Christians do not do them because it is in the Old Testament.  We do them because God wants us to love one another (i.e., not act out of selfish motivations).  A good way to understand the 10 commandments of Exodus 20 is to recognize that they show us how to love God (commandments 1-4) and how to love people (commandments 5-10).

This is not a double standard, nor is it a legalistic following of the Law.  It is following the Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit that He has poured out into our lives.

We can note that Jesus was a man who honored others, even when they dishonored him.

So, what exactly is honor?  The Hebrew word behind our translation has the sense of that which is heavy and has glory.  Your mother has the glory of being a very heavy thing in your life that should not be treated lightly.  Honor has to do with who your mother is, but also about your proper response to that place of honor.

Of course, your mother is not God.  Her honor is not greater than God’s honor.  Still, her honor comes from God Himself who made us a species that propagates the next generation through moms and dads.

If you think that your mother isn’t valuable in your life, then you need to change and work on giving value, weight, honor to who and to what she is in your life.

How a person honor has some changes as they mature.  An infant can’t understand this issue.  We don’t expect them to “honor their mother.”  Yet, an infant grows into a toddler and a young child.  Children need to show honor by respecting and obeying their parents (Ephesians 6:1; Colossians 3:20).

I guess it is theoretically possible for a mom to tell a child to do something bad or illegal.  However, that is the exception and not the norm.  Even non-Christian moms generally do not tell their kids to do such things.  Yes, extreme actions create extremely difficult circumstances that affect how we show honor.  This does not remove our responsibility to honor our moms.

Does anyone perfectly honor their mom and dad?  I don’t think so.  In fact, even moms and dads didn’t perfectly honor their mom and dad.  We need grace both ways, from parents to kids and from kids to parents.  Of course, kids don’t always understand this until they grow up and have a family of their own.

Teenagers especially kick against obeying their parents.  They are knocking at the door of adulthood and desire to jump into it too quickly.  They recognize that they don’t always think like their parents.  Yet, they still need to honor their parents through obedience while they are living with them.

It may seem to take forever, but kids eventually become adults.  What does it mean for us to honor our mothers when we are adults?

When a child moves out and starts their own life, they still need to honor their parents.  You should still respect them, but the area of obedience drops off.  You are no longer a child in their home.  Instead of giving commands, parents now become a source of valuable counsel in your life.  You honor them when you leave room for their counsel or even seek it out.  Of course, parents should honor their adult children by recognizing the role of parenting has changed.  Counseling others is an area fraught with pitfalls.  Moms can make the mistake of giving counsel in dishonoring ways, and adult children can make the mistake of receiving counsel in dishonoring ways.

Treat their input and counsel as valuable.  Hear them out without hurt and anger.  Yet, let it be what it is, a more experienced adult giving advice to a less experienced one.

Parents can mean well, but they are not God.  They don’t always know what is best for you.  Pray over their counseling.  Seek God’s wisdom on how to incorporate it.  Yet, you are seeking God’s will.  In the end, we honor God above even our parents.

There is one more change that happens.  When your parents enter their declining years, you should respect and care for them.  Not every parent declines in the same way.  Some do so quickly versus slowly.  Some decline at a relatively young age versus at an old age.  Some require great amounts of help and care while others require very little.  Yet, they will all need assistance.

This is a role reversal in some ways.  Yet, your parents do not become your children.  You should respect their wishes and desires while counseling them on decisions they need to make.  You should work hard to help them retain their dignity as much as possible.  In fact, it is important to stay connected to your parents enough that you know when you need to step in and start assisting them.

In some ways, you are paying them back for the years they took care of you when you couldn’t do it for yourself.  Yet, this is not an equation.  Some kids can chafe at how long and how much care a parent needs.  Do I only “owe” them the same number of years I was in their home?  This is a dishonorable way of approaching the issue.

You are honoring the place that God has given them in your life.  God wants you to care for them.  This is not to be treated lightly and cast aside.  Don’t kick against God’s will in your life but learn to embrace it with a love for Him and a love for your mother.

What if my mom (my dad) lived a dishonorable life?  What if there is nothing to respect and honor?  It is true that this presents a tough situation for you.  Some moms abandon their kids and then show up in their adult years.  Some moms were there but were hurtful and harmful in your life.  Maybe they changed later or maybe they didn’t.  These are all tough circumstances.  What does it mean to honor in these cases?

This brings up the issue of our motivation.

The motivation for honor

On one hand, we can simply say that God tells us to do it, and so we must do it.  It is true that to honor our parents in their declining years is to honor the God who tells us it is important.

On the other hand, we should not treat this subject as if we have no understanding about why God wants us to do it.

If you had wonderful parents as a kid, you will most likely feel a strong desire to bless them because you love them.  It may not even seem like a chore.  This is a glimpse of the best-case scenario.  Yet, it is interesting that the 5th commandment issues a promise of prolonging your days in the land.  Paul adds the phrase, “that it may be well with you…”

Of course, this is not a guarantee that nothing bad will happen in your life but that in comparison, it will be good to have honored and not good to have failed to do so.  Honoring your mom does something within you that is better for your life moving forward.  Honoring shapes you in good ways and dishonoring shapes you in bad ways.

As mortals, we cannot live both lives and choose which we think is better.  We either trust God or don’t.  Yet, even more than this, we can look at the lives of others who are honoring and those who are dishonoring their parents.  We can see whether this leads to a better life or a worse life.  I think there is plenty of data to support that God is correct in this area.

If you are struggling to honor your mom or simply doing a poor job at it, let’s look at some areas of motivation beyond trusting God.

First, you can honor your mom for the work they have done.  No mom is perfect, but many moms have chosen to stick in there and care for their kids when they couldn’t do it for themselves.  Putting all nit-picking aside, they did care for you.  Imagine life without them.

Second, you can honor your mom for the sheer difficulty of the task.  Even if they did a lousy job, we can recognize that there were personal hurts, wounds and fears that were behind their lousy job.  Not all of us are as wise as Solomon, and it is even harder when a mom has abuse and tragedy in her life.  There are tough decisions in life.  It is easy to choose the easier path while failing the test of doing the right thing, the good thing.  The junk in their heart and mind interferes with their ability to make good decisions.

Of course, we do not honor them for doing a poor job.  We simply recognize it was a difficult time for them.  It doesn’t make it right.  However, their failure to step up in a tough situation is exactly what you are wrestling with.  You are in a tough situation and are letting hurt and wounds drive you towards making a decision that is not good for your parents.  Do you want mercy?  To give them mercy is to make the case for your own need for mercy.

In fact, God is challenging you to see His heart for redemption, redeeming your parent and redeeming you.  Perhaps, you are God’s last attempt to break through the hurts and failures of their life.

Third, you can honor your mom for the place and purpose God has given them in your life.  God gave you your mom just as much as He gave you to them.  Regardless of how well or bad they did, we can honor God by helping them when they need it (or will accept it).  God is asking you to love them and minister to them.  They may be a porcupine of a person who is impossible to hug but this is God’s challenge to you.  Many an adult child has led a parent to the Lord who had lived a selfish life in rebellion against God and to the hurt of their kids.

Forgiveness is not saying what they did was good or even okay.  It is saying, I refuse to mistreat you because you mistreated me.  It is seeking to overcome evil with good.  Only the Spirit of Christ can do this kind of a work within us.

May God help us to honor our mothers ever day moving forward.  In ourselves, we are empty vessels.  But in Christ, we can be a full cup of blessing to others even when they have brought hurt and pain into our lives.  This is becoming like Jesus.

Wednesday
May062026

The First Letter of Peter- 22

Subtitle: Closing Words

1 Peter 5:12-14. This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, May 3, 2026.

As we finish this letter, we have reached the place where Peter gives his closing words to the recipients of it. 

It is mostly a basic closing of a letter. It mentions the carrier of the letter and gives greetings to people in the churches of Asia Minor from Peter and others with him.

Yet, there are a couple of items in this passage that have created some controversy. 

Let’s look at our passage.

Peter’s closing words (v. 12-14)

Peter first explains that the letter has come to them through a man named Silvanus.  Silvanus is mentioned as a fellow worker with Paul and Timothy in 2 Corinthians, 1 Thessalonians and 2 Thessalonians.

We should also make the connection between this Silvanus and the shortened form of his name used by Luke in Acts, Silas.  Though Peter and Paul use the longer form, Luke seems disposed to using a more intimate and informal name for him.

Silas was a Jewish Christian who was among the men of Jerusalem in the Jerusalem Council of Acts 15.  He accompanied Paul back to Antioch in order to verify the decision of the Jerusalem Council.  Luke describes him as a prophet and teacher who is clearly of Jewish descent.  Silas ends up accompanying Paul on his 2nd Missionary journey through the areas addressed by Peter’s letter.  He would know the people and be familiar to them, having ministered among them with Paul.

Peter refers to Silvanus as a “faithful brother” and comments that this is his opinion or estimation of him.  The gist of this is simply that the one these churches know as a faithful brother already has also been found by Peter to be faithful as a brother in Christ, i.e., a spiritual brother.

By the way, this is how the New Testament really began.  Letters were written by apostles to particular churches or group of churches in a region.  We are not told how Silvanus distributed this letter to so many churches.  Did he come bearing multiple copies?  What church did he go to first?  Some of these questions we cannot know.  However, it is most likely that the letter was first given to a particular church, which would most likely make a copy of it.  Since Silvanus is well acquainted, it is most likely that he personally saw to the distribution.  It would allow him to touch base and minister to the churches similar to Paul’s attitude in his missionary journeys.  Thus, Silvanus would come to a particular town, a church member would make a faithful copy, and he would then take the letter to another town, most likely taking time to exhort the church on the contents of the letter.

Similarly, Paul’s letters to the church in Corinth would slowly be copied and shared with other churches in the region.  At some point, the Church felt it was important to assemble the verified letters of the apostles that had long acceptance in different regions into a collection.  This ultimately became the New Testament.  By the time this assembling happened, it would have been impossible to make up a letter that was not original to the apostles and pretend like it was.  Too many churches had copies of these letters over too long of a time.  The cry of “foul” would have been deafening from the churches if such was attempted.

Peter then summarizes his purpose in the letter.  He has both testified and exhorted them in the true grace of God.  He testified in that he declared what he heard and saw.  He has exhorted in the sense that he is calling them to stay true to what they have received.  This is what I know to be true, and this is what you should do.

So, what is the true grace of God?  We can start with pointing to Jesus.  Jesus as the Son of God and Son of Man had come as God’s Anointed to save Israel and the Gentiles.  This is opposed to all the false claimants to be God’s Messiah.  Jesus is the true Christ versus the false Christs that came before him, and those that came after him.  Peter gave faithful testimony to the person, work, and teaching of Jesus.

These teachings were taught and written down for the strengthening of those who believed.  These Scriptures are an analog revealing Jesus the Messiah to those who read it.

However, it is not enough to receive the truth about Christ in verbal and written form.  We must remain firm in our faith. 

Some versions differ between Peter giving a command, “Stand firm in it,” and Peter simply declaring, “in which you stand.”  The difference between the two is a couple of letters in the verb “stand.”  We do not know how the difference came about in some of the old manuscripts.  Regardless, both are good and true.  They had received the Gospel, so it is entirely appropriate for Peter to testify and to exhort that this is the true grace of God, in which you currently stand firm.

Yet, they will need to be faithful until the end of their lives.  Over time, threats will come against the true grace of God.  They will need to stand firm in what they have received.  Thus, it would be entirely appropriate to voice this as a command.

For us today, we may not know which form Peter initially intended.  However, we do know that Scripture challenges us with both ideas.  It is good for believers to be standing firm in what the Scriptures reveal about Jesus, but it is also important for us to persevere in standing firm to the end of our life.

There is generally nothing controversial in a section that sends greetings, but we have such here.  Peter’s phrase, “She who is in Babylon, chosen together with you,” has two areas of contention.

The first has to do with who or what is the pronoun “she” referencing?  This has been generally interpreted as referring to the body of believers where Peter is, i.e., the church he is at.  The word for church in Greek is a feminine term and thus takes a feminine pronoun.  It is singular because the group is spoken of as a singular entity, a local expression of the greater Church of Jesus.  This also fits with the fact that we know Peter is addressing churches in Asia Minor.  A pronoun without connection to a person or name would more naturally connect to another church.  In fact, the description of being chosen together with the recipients of the letter further strengthens the idea of “she” referring to the local church in Peter’s location.

It wasn’t until later that the idea was floated that “she” could refer to Peter’s wife.  The problem with this is that she is never mentioned in the letter, and it would not be the most natural interpretation of Peter’s words.

Just as the early church referred to each other as brothers and sisters (spiritually), churches were commonly referred to as sisters.  This ties into the Hebrew usage in the Old Testament of the current citizens of a city being the daughters of the city (seen as a mother), e.g., the daughters of Jerusalem etc.

Another example of this in the New Testament is in 2 John 1:13. “The children of your elect sister send you greetings.”  The current believers who make up the chosen sister church where I am at send you greetings. 

I think it is most natural and most fitting with the evidence of history to see this as a reference to the believers of a particular church.

The second question in the above phrase is the identity of Babylon.  Is this a literal reference to Babylon or is it a symbolic reference to Rome?

The earliest evidence we have that still exists is from around AD 313.  Eusebius in his Church History cites an earlier work from Papias.  He states that Papias had written a five-volume work called Exposition of the Sayings of the Lord.  Eusebius claims that Papias, along with other early church fathers, believed Babylon in verse 13 to be a symbolic reference to Rome.

We should also note that there is no known counterclaim that literal Babylon was intended.  Thus, the evidence of history at this point would be on the side of a symbolic reference to Rome.

However, it is not implausible that Peter could have gone to literal Babylon.  There was a large Jewish community in Babylon that eventually became the source for the Babylonian Talmud.  It would make sense that the Apostle to the Jews could be sent by the Holy Spirit to testify there.  Yet, there is no evidence from history that states such.  It is simply a conjecture that could only be substantiated if we assume Babylon is literal here.

John has a similar thing in the Revelation of Jesus Christ.  There is a reference to “Mystery Babylon” which sits on seven hills.  The testimony of the early church is that this referred to Rome.

Babylon was prophesied against by the Old Testament prophets.  But, a close reading of those prophecies will note that Babylon comes to be treated as a Symbol or a System that is created by a rebellious spirit behind it.  This spirit of empire and domination by wicked spirits is used of an end-time city/powerhouse that will be destroyed by the Beast.

Why has this become an issue?  The Reformation led to many arguments between Protestants and Roman Catholics.  A main contention between them had to do with the authority of the Pope.  Did God give him authority to command all the Church of God on earth?  Roman Catholics say yes and Protestants say no.

In arguing these cases, several lines of arguments cross this verse.  The Roman Catholics point to Peter as being the Rock (foundation) of the Church.  They also claim that he was the first Bishop of Rome.  He then handed his authority down to the next Bishop upon his death.  They then claim an unbroken line of succession from Peter to the current Pope.  The authority of Peter belongs to the current Pope.

Protestants may argue against Peter ever being in Rome, except perhaps at his execution.  They will also argue that Peter was never a bishop in Rome, definitely not the first bishop.  In fact, the New Testament never speaks of Peter going to Rome.  Even when Paul goes to Rome at the end of Acts, it already has a church of believers there.  If there were not already a bishop of this church, then he would have definitely set some faithful elders into those positions, as was his way among all the churches he started.  Peter is not mentioned as residing there.  He is most likely still in Jerusalem or that region.

Regardless of all of the above, Protestants can be polarized into believing that they have to believe this is literal Babylon in order to prove the argument of the Romanists wrong.  I believe this is a fallacy.  Regardless of whether this is a symbolic reference to Rome or a literal reference to Babylon, this does not matter with the argument over Papal succession and authority.  The truth is the truth, and men are quite capable of taking a true statement and using it to substantiate a false claim.  It is the claim that is false and not the statement used to support it.

Ultimately, it has no bearing on our faith where Peter is writing this letter.

Peter then gives them greetings from “my son, Mark.”  Mark is not his literal son, but his son spiritually.  This is the nephew of Barnabas who abandoned Paul’s first missionary journey into Asia Minor.  He eventually became a helper with Barnabas and then later with Peter.  Mark with Peter was similar to the way Timothy was for Paul, a younger minister that aided them in their ministry.

This Mark is the same one who wrote the Gospel of Mark.  Mark was too young to know all that Jesus did, but his Gospel has historically been described as the account of Jesus from Peter’s perspective.

Peter takes advantage of the greetings that he gives in order to remind them to greet one another with the kiss of love.  Now, the kiss of love is the opposite of the kiss of betrayal given by Judas to Jesus.  The kiss of betrayal is a superficial pretense that covers wickedness underneath.  Christians are to greet one another with a kiss of love, not hypocrisy. 

Of course, how cultures greet one another are various.  It was common in those days to kiss on the cheek those you meet.  In our culture, we might say to greet one another with a handshake of love.  We should not be outward jerks to one another, but neither should we be fake with one another.  Christians must do the inner work of being able to love other Christians.

Personality clashes and events that happen between two people can muddy the waters of our love for one another.  It takes forgiveness and repentance for a group too remain in the love of Christ for one another.

Finally, Peter blesses them by saying, “Peace be unto you all who are in Christ.”  The Christian has peace with God because they have believed upon the One that He has sent to save us.  When we embrace Jesus, we are no longer enemies to God, and He is no longer an enemy to us.  If this is rightly understood and believed, it gives a person an inner sense of peace by the Holy Spirit regardless of the chaos and threats of suffering that surround them.  It is a peace that passes all understanding.  If you know that you are okay (right) with God, then the threats and slander of men are easier to ignore.

Yet, Peace also describes the eternal purpose of God for those who belong to Jesus by faith.  We are in Christ like Noah and his family were in the ark.  Judgment is coming upon this earth, but the one who believes and follows Christ is in the safe place that God has provided for them.  Jesus is not just a way to avoid judgment.  He is one with whom we have a relationship through the Holy Spirit.

Our challenge is to hold fast the proven and true Word of God we have received from faithful believers before us.  Yet, that word teaches us how to know the Lord Jesus and how to follow him.  May we stay faithful to Jesus, the Faithful One, until the end of our life!

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Thursday
Apr302026

The First Letter Of Peter- 21

Subtitle: How Suffering Ties To Our Future Hope- Part 3

1 Peter 5:6-11.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, April 26, 2026.

We ended our sermon last week at 1 Peter 5:5. Peter quoted Proverbs 3:34, “God is opposed to the proud but gives grace to the humble.”  He is not just passively opposed to the proud.  Just as He actively gives grace to the humble, so He actively opposes the proud.

Today, we are going to continue with this exhortation to stay humble in the humble circumstances of suffering.  As we do so, we will find that there is more than just suffering.  There is also the grace of Jesus.

Let’s look at our passage.

An Exhortation to all Christians (6-11)

The statement, even the revelation, of Proverbs 3:34 challenges us to trust God.  Do you really believe this?  If you do, then you will always choose the humble path because you do not want God to oppose you.

True humility is staying lowly in your attitude towards others, but at the same time, understanding that God has a purpose for you.  You can do what God has given you to do without becoming proud.  In fact, the humblest thing we can do is to say “yes” to God’s purpose even when we feel that we are not up to it.

In verse 6, Peter commands believers to humble themselves under the mighty hand of God so that He may exalt us at the proper time.

Depending on your attitude, the mighty hand of God can be viewed in two ways.  If you stay humble, then God’s hand will be mighty in assistance.  He gives grace that aids us mightily in the ways that He knows we need.  However, if you are not humble, then His mighty hand will come against you in discipline and judgment.

We should not lose sight of the reality that the Hand of the Lord is an Old Testament metaphor that points to the Messiah, Jesus.  Thus, we need to humble ourselves under the Mighty Jesus who was sent to lead us to God.  Humble yourself by trusting the way of Jesus, and his way leads through suffering.

Notice that exaltation is at the bottom of this.  The proud and arrogant of this world fight and claw in order to exalt themselves.  We can even exalt others as a way of “hitching our wagon” to theirs.  However, God only exalts “at the proper time.”  Have you ever thought that you might not be ready for exaltation?  Shouldn’t we trust God’s timing in this?  Shouldn’t we have faith in Him?

It is good for us to learn discipline in this time in which we deal with our own sin and the sin of others.  Much of the suffering of life is a result of sin.

Even though Peter is talking about the ultimate exaltation of the Kingdom of God led by His Messiah, King Jesus, it is also true on a smaller scale within this life.  Most times of suffering have a season or period.  When we are dealing with trials, we can know that God will bring us through it.  He does not intend to let us be tested forever.

In order to do this, Peter tells us to cast our worries upon Jesus because He cares for us.  Our true problem is not the theoretical question of whether or not God is for us.  It is all those worries and anxieties that that we have going on in our heart and mind.  I might not get what I want.  Someone else might get what I want instead.  It is this multitude of worries that divide our heart against an allegiance to God, if we are not careful.

We are told to cast our worries upon Him.  This is a picture of what happens in our heart as we talk with God in prayer.  We don’t cast our worries at Him as an accusation.  Rather, we cast them upon Him.  We put the heaviness of the worry upon Him and let Him figure it out for us. 

We can do this because He cares for us.  That is, we are His concern.  God knows what we need and will provide it at the proper time.  Will I live refusing, rejecting, and ignoring His care for me?  Or will I lean into His care and rest in it?

Psalm 55:22 reads, “Cast your burden upon the LORD, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken.”  Pride leads to wickedness which leads to being shaken by God’s judgments.  However, humility leads to righteousness which does not lead to being shaken by judgment.

It is important that we do this because of what Peter says next. We have an enemy, the devil, who is on the prowl, seeking someone to devour.  First of all, there is a contrast here.  The devil devours everyone that he can.  However, God is only opposed to the proud.  Second of all, it is pride that makes us vulnerable to the devil.

This picture of the devil like a prowling lion connects to Job 1 and 2. Satan appears before God and is asked what he has been doing.  Notice that he doesn’t say why he is traveling to and fro throughout the earth.  This gives us a fuller picture.  He wants to devour those who are not able to stand against him.  He wants to devour your soul, your life, your ability to image God.  He wants to devour God’s purpose for you and make you a captive to his self-serving purposes.

When we walk in humility before our fellow man and before God, we will find all the resources of God’s grace available to us in that time of need.

Peter then tells us to be sober in spirit.  Yes, God is for us, but the devil is really against us.  We need to be able to deal with this reality.  We need to be on the alert for his tactics and schemes.  We also need to be on the alert for how our foolishness can set us up for him.  Our envy, fears, and hunger for recognition, can open access points in our life for his devouring work.

Thus, in this sober and alert state, we are to resist him.  Resist here is the sense of taking our stand against the devil and his schemes.  We are to oppose what he is trying to do in our lives and in the lives of our family and friends.  We do this by firmly putting our faith in Christ, not letting ourselves be pulled into trusting the ways of pride and the ways of the world.

Peter reminds us about the reality that other Christians are going through these same things around the world.  In fact, some of them may be going through worse suffering than we are.  Yet, Peter does not simply say they are going through them.  It is often translated as “being accomplished” by them.  They are going through them victoriously in Christ.  Their faith is not being overwhelmed and extinguished.  They are more than conqueror through Jesus Christ who strengthen them.  Thus, so can we be strengthened to face our enemy.  This is nothing unique to me or you.  All who want to follow Christ will face these things.

Even though we have suffering in this life, remember that God gives grace to the humble.  He doesn’t just do this after we die.  He gives us grace in the midst of our trials.  He has purpose in us that He will accomplish as we trust Him.  This is important.  God is helping us in this life against our enemy.  We don’t have to be afraid and shrink back.  We can humbly step up and stand our ground in Jesus.

Verse 10 says that we have been called to His eternal glory in Christ.  Dwelling within the glory of God is our destiny.  Yet, it is “in Christ.”  Christ is the ground, or foundation, that gives us standing before God.  We are called to His eternal glory, but the way to this glory is through times of suffering on this earth.

Peter mentions that this time of glory is “after you have suffered for a little while…” We can contemplate this “little while” in a couple of ways.  Life is generally not suffering all the time.  It may come in seasons, now intense, and now not.  It is very common to see that God brings us through times of difficult testing and into times of rest.  Those difficult times always feel like they will never end, but this too shall pass.  Knowing this can help us to keep faith in times of testing.

Yet, our lives are also “for a little while.”  We are grass and our time fleeting.  Even if my life is lived suffering under the boot of a tyrant until the day I die, this cannot change God’s calling upon my life.  When the suffering is over. Then I will see how God has used it to do some things within me that are eternal.  This is true throughout our life, and it will be true at the end of our life.

Peter states that God will “perfect you.”  This is the idea of making you complete, lacking nothing.  We can think of being completely equipped with all that we need, but we should also think of His ability to heal our wounds and make us whole, complete.

This doesn’t mean we do nothing.  We are called to be perfect as He is perfect, but none of us can do this on our own.  In this life, He is perfecting us through imperfect things.  Yet, in the end, we will be like Him because of His grace.

Trials and sufferings are one of the ways that God builds His character and righteousness into us.

Not only will He make us complete, but He will firmly equip us.  The firm part of this phrase has the idea of being set in a way that is not easily moved.  We might picture how construction uses braces to keep a structure from falling over.  God is making us to be a people that the devil cannot defeat and devour.  He is making us into people who cannot be pulled onto foolish paths.

He will also strengthen you.  There is strength that comes from bracing (external), but there is also strength that is more internal.  The Spirit of God uses trials and suffering to strengthen our faith in Him.  This is a spiritual strengthening.

Lastly, Peter says that He will establish you.  This is the idea of having a firm foundation.  Of course, Jesus is our firm foundation.  However, God is working to firmly set us upon His foundation, unable to be toppled.

Think of it.  Each trial you go through will also see God doing these things within you until that day you stand before Him completed.

This leads to Peter’s celebratory declaration.  To Him be the glory and dominion forever and ever, amen.  Some versions don’t have the word glory.  Regardless, this is the language used of the Messiah’s Kingdom.  The Son of Man will be given dominion over all the nations of the earth.  Why should we remain humble at all times?  We should do so because the day is coming when Jesus will come in glory and take up his dominion.  The power, rule, and dominion are all his, even if he invites us into it and allows us to exercise it with him. 

This ties back to the earlier statement, “Let him who boasts boast in the lord!”

Peter does that here by declaring that all of this belongs to Jesus forever, Amen!

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