The Sermon on the Mount XVII

Subtitle:  Revealing Areas that are Pitfalls for Hypocrisy IV

Matthew 7:7-12.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on April 14, 2024.

Jesus finishes up this section by looking at our relationship with God through prayer (or lack thereof).  How can prayer become an area that is fraught with hypocrisy?  It can be so in the same way that prayer has always been a challenge to the flesh of us humans.

Are you challenged by prayer and sustaining a relationship with God through it?  Prayer is not easy on us, at least when we approach it as Jesus taught back in chapter 6.  Secret prayer is acid to our ego and our flesh.

Let’s look at our passage and get into this topic.

Hypocrisy in our prayer life (v. 7-12)

In verse seven, Jesus uses the command form of “asking, seeking and knocking” in his description of prayer.  We could say that these verbs represent different ways of describing prayer, or ways of thinking about prayer.  The command is to be doing something in the present because something else will happen in the future.  We should note that Jesus does not tell us how long that will be.  In fact, from the experience of the saints, we know that this period of time (from praying to receiving an answer to prayer) varies from an immediate answer to an answer that may be answered after our death.

Though you could infer this from verse 7, the addition of verse 8 makes clear that there is an implication of continuity in our prayers, persistence, perseverance.  Thus, we are to be asking in the present until that day in the future becomes today.  We should not confuse this with the earlier warning not to pray as if we will be heard by our many words.  That is pointing us towards simple prayers.  Whereas continuing to ask each day is not the same thing.  It is in truth continuing to have faith that God will answer.

When we feel that tendency to complain like this: “I asked God for such and such, but it didn’t happen,” we need to understand that our faith is being tested.  We need to wait upon the Lord’s answer in faith and trust, while continuing to ask. 

Now, let’s look at the same statement that is made in three different views of prayer.

The first is the idea of asking.  We come to God with a request.  Jesus essentially says for us to be asking and it will be given to you.  We may be asking for something tangible, like bread, or we may be asking for something less so, like wisdom.  Regardless Jesus emphasizes that his followers should be asking God with the expectation that they will receive from Him.

Sometimes we ask for things, but we haven’t thought through what it might look like for God to give it to us.  Wisdom is rarely given instantly as seems to be the case with Solomon (though it could be argued that it was not as immediate as people may think).  It typically comes through interactions with life and God’s help in the moment.  We then grow in wisdom as God helps us.  It doesn’t work like the futuristic movies that picture a person hooking their brain to a computer and downloading the skills to fly a military helicopter.  When we ask for wisdom, we should not expect to wake up as Solomon the next day.  However, we can be fully assured that God will help us to receive it in a multitude of many ways.

We might even ask ourselves (after asking God for something) this question.  What would be the righteous way to answer this?  What would be the good way that a loving, heavenly Father would answer this?  Asking our heaven Father for something involves maturing in our understanding of that process.  I didn’t know all of the things that my earthly parents were thinking about, but their answers and their timing helped me to grow in understanding them.  How much greater is this with God who is a perfect Father?  It is much more.

The second picture is that of seeking something from God (or even seeking deeper relationship with God).  Seeking involves not knowing where something is and trying to get to it, find it.  We may even think of prayer as seeking God’s wisdom in how we ask and how He responds.  Prayer is not about coming up to a cosmic vending machine and pushing certain buttons and putting in a certain amount of currency in order to get what you want.  In prayer, we are seeking something and our heavenly Father is just the One to help us find it in the righteous and proper way.  Thus we are commanded to be seeking and then we will find.

The third view of prayer pictures us knocking on a door.  Doors are a picture of access.  They often have locks to keep unauthorized people out.  Jesus is the door to the Father.  Thus, we pray to the Father in the name of the Son (through him).  However, there is a sense when we are asking God for something that it is much like knocking until He answers.  Am I going to get tired of knocking and walk away?  Will I be persistent, or accuse Him of being stingy?

The interesting thing is that God is pictured as a Father who is approachable and gives answer to prayer.  We see this all through the sermon on the Mount.  The essential statement underlying all of Christ’s commands is this.  “God is your heavenly Father who cares for you.  You can completely trust Him!”  In chapter 6 when he teaches us how to pray, he says to address God as a Father who is approachable and desirous to help us.  Is that how you see God?

Verse 8 quickly adds the reason why what he has said is true.  It essentially is a no-brainer statement.  However, this is what makes it so powerful.  We can grow discouraged and stop asking, seeking and knocking.  Jesus tells us that it is asking people who receive, seeking people who find, and knocking people to whom the door is opened.  It essentially undermines our tendency to quit.  Why would I quit when an essential aspect to receiving is being a asking person?  The reason is that I have lost faith in God’s care and love for me.

This point is not a guarantee that you will get exactly what you pray for, like an order at a fast food joint.  Rather, he is pointing out the silliness of not continuing to prayer.  Only those who continue in prayer will see answers.

We should also note here that we are not talking about the general grace of God.  Everyday God gives a certain amount of grace to everyone.  We all have oxygen.  When it rains, we all receive it (in that area).  The sun shines on us all alike.  We live in a world that is fit for us to survive.  However, in prayer, we are talking about special grace that comes in the form of an answer to our requests.  God in His sovereignty has provided a certain level of care for all.  However, He leaves room for us to take the initiative in order to make requests of Him.

Perhaps you “tried” being an asking person and “felt” like it “didn’t work.”  I will come back to some of the words in that last sentence.  But, let me just say that God isn’t something that you try.

Prayer has a level of discovery to it.  We pray for things, but we also want God’s wisdom and will (remember the Lord’s prayer).  My prayer about a situation, or for a particular thing, may change over time as I wrestle with God over it in prayer.  However, even then, the same point made by Jesus applies.  Only those who keep looking will discover what God has for them to learn and receive.  Prayer takes faith, not in prayer itself (as a mechanism), but in the God to whom we pray.  He is the heavenly Father who loves us.  Think of the wonder of this.  God has carved out certain areas of His will that will not happen unless we have the gumption to ask for it, seek for it, and knock on His door for it.

It is interesting that all three of these pictures of prayer are referred to in different ways throughout the sermon on the mount.  In the area of asking, giving and receiving, Jesus has mentioned several things.

• Matthew 5:42, “Give to him who asks you, and from him who wants to borrow from you do not turn away.”  This is important to remember that, when you ask God for things, He has been watching your response to others who have asked you for things.
• Matthew 6:8, “Your Father knows what you have need of before you ask.”  This may cause some to question praying at all.  However, Jesus goes the opposite direction.  The fact that God knows what we need (i.e., He is intimately aware of your needs) is reason for continuing to pray, not to quit.  Thus our present praying is not informing God of the what of our request.  Rather, it is demonstrating the depth of our faith in Him and His purposes (or not).
• Matthew 6:11, “Give this day our daily bread.”  All of these together shows us that God wants us to ask Him for things, and He wants to give us things.  However, we need to ask in a right way.  How can I ask God to be a giver to me when I refuse to image His giving nature to others?

The area of seeking and finding is also mentioned.

• Matthew 6:33, “Seek first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you.”  This actually tells us what we should be seeking from God.  You cannot separate God from His Kingdom, so it is also a seeking for nearness to God.
• Matthew 7:14, “difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.”  This one is in the next section.  Still, Jesus points to two different roads we can take in life.  The things you are seeking may take you down the wrong road.  If my life is all about the things of me and this life, and not about the things of God in this life, I will have difficulty finding the way which leads to life.

The area of knocking, opening (a door), is also mentioned.

• Matthew 5:2, “Jesus opened up his mouth and taught them.”  This may seem to be a stretch, but you cannot deny that Jesus is presented in the gospels as the door, the gate, the way for us.  So, when it says that he opened up his mouth and taught them, we can see the wisdom of God the “way of the Lord” being explained to the people so that they can know how to live, i.e., what way to go.
• Matthew 6:6, here we see that there is a door to the secret place that we can go through, shut, and be alone with God in prayer.  Yes, I will ask God for things, but the biggest thing that needs to happen is for me to be changed through relationship with God in the secret place.

In all of this, we should notice that parents wrestle with the requests of their kids and use their wisdom to determine whether it should be outright given, or if it should be mitigated in some way.  A kid may want ice cream for every meal.  No good parent would give such a request.  However, they will also see the desire of their kid and once and a while treat them to some ice cream.

Our asking, seeking and knocking needs to be informed by all of the wisdom of Jesus.  Prayer is learning to align my life with the Kingdom of God (His purpose and will).

Jesus then gives two examples of giving by human fathers and compares them to God the Father (verses 8-11).  These are simple illustrations that challenge our ability to give up on God in different ways, all of which lack trust in Him.  The first is a son asking for bread.  What father would give him a stone?  This rhetorical question would be understood by all in the crowd.  None of them would do that to their son.  Similarly, in the second question, the son asks for fish.  What father would give him a serpent?  This is parallel to the first question, but also intensive.  A stone is inanimate and is only unable to help the son.  Perhaps, we could see in it a mockery.  However, a serpent has an evil connotation to it that the stone doesn’t.  Still, the obvious answer is that none of them would think to give their kid a serpent when they were asking for fish, that is, food.

Notice that Jesus has begun to bring our prayers back to the concept of a heavenly Father who cares for us better than the best of parents.  This is the same as he did back in chapter 6 and the Lord’s Prayer.  Even the best of parents are fallen beings when compared to God.  They are not perfect and don’t always respond to the needs of their children like they should.  But, God is absolute righteousness and absolute love.

Parents will rightly listen to their kids, but not give them everything they ask for.  In these cases, it has nothing to do with trying to do them harm, or being mean to them.  Parents who love their kids take in mind the desire of the child and wisely formulate the best way to answer the child.  This is where we miss it with God.  As adults, we don’t like being in the child-position with God.  We give up on our heavenly Father far to easy.

God is way better at hearing the prayers of His children and determining what we need and when we need it.  He does care for you, and He is not holding out on you.

This isn’t the only dynamic at play.  Yes, I need to learn to trust God, but there is also a spiritual enemy that seeks to tempt me away from trust in God.  If you have seen a sumo wrestling match, then you know that the goal is to resist being pushed out of the ring.  Satan knows that he will win against us if he can push us out of the ring of faith in God.  Of course, he is not literally pushing us.  In this sense, our faith can over come all of his bullying and seducing that seeks to pull us away from faith in God.

Verse 11 emphasizes that God knows much better how to give good gifts to those who ask of Him than we do as people.  I don’t ask wisely in my prayers, but God is committed to giving good gifts to me.  In fact, the Lord’s prayer teaches us how to wisely pray.

Verse 12 generally looks like Jesus is jumping to a new topic.  This is the Golden Rule.  It actually serves to remind us of a principle that he has been brushing up against all throughout the Sermon on the Mount.  Whatever you want people to do to you, do also to them.  In fact, he says that this sums up the Law and the Prophets.  This is another way of saying that this is what it is trying to teach us.  Treat people the way that you would want to be treated.

Of course, our first response is this.  “What if they don’t treat me the same way that I did them?”  That is the test of following Jesus.  Jesus is not promising that people will treat you well if you treat them well.  In fact, they may crucify you if you love them with God’s love.

This command from Christ does not have an escape clause.  There is no mechanism for letting us quit doing them good because they haven’t reciprocated good to us.  We are simply to live our life only doing to others what we would want them to do to us. 

When we approach this as a law, we are looking for  the loopholes.  However, when we see Christ on the cross, we realize that this is all about imaging God, not getting what we want.  In my flesh, I feel that I have been nice enough, but what if God did that to us?

This brings us to ask the question.  What does this have to do with prayer?  The Golden Rule reminds us that prayer in the secret place with God is intimately connected to our life with others in the public place.  A relationship with God cannot be divorced from our relationship with others because God loves them too.  We see this throughout the Sermon on the Mount.

Matthew 5:23-24 pictures a person offering a gift to God at the altar and then remembering that their brother has been offended by them.  He tells us to leave our gift at the altar, go make amends with our brother, and then come back and offer our gift to God. 

Matthew 5:44 tells us to pray for those who are spitefully using us, as well as learning to love our enemies.

Also, Matthew 6:14-15 we are reminded that God’s response to us takes into account our responses to others in the area of forgiveness.

How does this relate to hypocrisy?  The faith component in prayer tries and tests us.  Will I stay in relationship with God when things take longer, or don’t happen as I wanted them?  Will I blame God and walk away?  We too easily give up on God and lose faith in the difficult things of life.  When that happens, some will remain in the church and play the part of a Christian, but in their heart they no longer pray, nor believe that God is their loving, heavenly Father.  This is the very definition of a hypocrite.  In fact, the more responsibility you have in the church, the more vulnerable you are to hypocrisy because you may feel that you have too much to lose.  The religious leaders of the days of Jesus had become hypocrites, but held on to their positions of power.

Others may be disillusioned with God and “deconstruct their faith.”  They may walk away and join another religion or become an atheist.  At least they aren’t a hypocrite, right?  Maybe not.  Think about what is going on in their heart.  “I tried it, but it doesn’t work!  I don’t believe in God!”  Yet, this person is insisting that they did everything right and it was God who didn’t do the righteous thing.  They are accusing God of something that is not true and clinging to the fiction of their own righteousness.  You “tried” praying to God?  What did that look like?  And, “it didn’t work?”  What were you expecting it to do?  What do you exactly mean by “work?”  This argument that I was righteous and God failed doesn’t hold water.  This is the hypocrisy of accusation against God.

In the end, prayer is not about getting everything that I want.  Don’t go through the Bible looking for the Scriptures that promise you will get everything you pray for, nor looking for the Scriptures that show you will not get everything you pray for.  Pray is not a mechanism for getting things, though you will get things through it.  Prayer is a relationship of faith that enables us to become everything that we need to become by God’s help and grace.

Let’s not be a hypocrite, but instead, let’s turn back to God in prayer.  Let’s start believing in God and not giving up on Him because He hasn’t given up on us!

Pitfalls for Hypocrisy IV audio

The Sermon on the Mount XIV

Subtitle:  Revealing Areas that are Pitfalls for Hypocrisy

Matthew 6:22-24.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on March 17, 2024.

Our passage continues looking at how the things of this world can become a pitfall for hypocrisy.  Last week, we saw that wealth that is amassed can get ahold of our heart.  It can become the thing we love.

In this passage, Jesus moves to the eye and points out how it can be captured by things as well.

Let’s look at the passage.

The health of our eye (v. 22-23)

How do people who start out wanting to serve God become hypocrites?  How do popes, pastors, general superintendents, and the religious, become hypocrites?  One of those ways is through their love for things more than God.  It shouldn’t be lost on us that Jesus spends more time talking about how things pull our heart away from God, then he does talking about our bad relationships with people.

If wealth can take hold of our heart and become the love of our life, then it can also affect our eye.  What does that look like?

Jesus first starts out with the natural affect of having a good eye or a bad eye.  He pictures the eye as the “lamp of the body.”  The eye  channels light into our brain so that it can be turned into a mental picture of the reality around us.

Notice that the eye is not the source of that light, but only a conduit, or a sensor.  That is exactly how a lamp works.  It is designed to hold oil (the fuel) and generally has a wick, which is lit.  The burning of the oil around the wick is then able to send light throughout the room.

This is important because the man standing in front of them is the “Light of the world.”  He has come to give them the light, the truth, about God’s purpose of salvation and man’s true condition.  Jesus knows that they will need some good spiritual eyes to see him as the light and to receive his teachings, ultimately, to be saved from their sins.  When you have good spiritual eyes, you can make an informed decision and hopefully a wise choice.

Yet, just as wealth can have a grip on people’s hearts so too, it can affect people’s spiritual eyes.  We can be surrounded by the light of God and not see it because we are spiritually blind.  This is why the Scriptures warn us over and over to guard our hearts.  We could add that we need to guard our eyes.  This is the challenge that Jesus speaks to us here.

Yet, there is something more specific than just seeing the truth in Jesus.  An evil eye is always connected to a greedy, miserly, and even covetous person, in the Scriptures.  On the other hand, a good eye is generally connected to generosity and charitable giving.

It is seen as an evil, or bad, eye because you cannot see your brother’s true need.  You can only see that the money you love will be depleted if you use it to help others.  Your eye is good if you can see that the things in your life were most likely given to you so that you could help your brother.  We will come back to this, but it does beg the question.  Why does God allow some to amass wealth and not others?

Jesus uses this concept of an evil eye in Matthew 20 when he tells the parable of the workers in the vineyard.  In the story, the owner of a vineyard goes to the place where day-laborers gather in the morning and hires them to work for the day.  He will pay them a denarius, which was defined as a day’s wage.  He goes back to the hiring place several more times: at the third hour, the sixth hour, the ninth hour, and the eleventh.  For sake of the story, we will assume they were working a twelve hour day.

When evening came, they began to pay the workers starting with the men who started at the eleventh hour.  Interestingly enough, they were paid a denarius.  The story jumps to the men who worked all day long, but imagine if you had worked all day and were in line to get paid when you saw the men who worked one hour receive a whole denarius (a whole day’s wage). Most people would immediately have their hopes up that they would get even more than a denarius, perhaps even 12 of them (for scale, imagine going from thinking you would receive $240 for the day to thinking you might receive 12 times that, $2,880).  Yet, when the men came to get their pay, they only received a denarius.  They began to complain, but the owner challenges them.  Didn’t you agree to work for a denarius?  They couldn’t say no.  They were not being ripped off.  Yet, it didn’t seem fair in some way.

Jesus get’s to the heart of the manner with the statement, “Why is your eye evil because I am good?”  It was good of the landowner to pay everyone a denarius.  Yet, somehow that because a situation for those who worked all day to become greedy.  This is an important acknowledgment that we need to make.  Our hearts can be overcome by greed, but here Jesus ties it to our eyes.

These men had their hearts on things, on money.  Thus, they couldn’t see the goodness of the landowner.  They could only see that they had been jilted somehow.  This is hypocrisy in the life of a person who claims to serve God.

Thus, wealth not only gets our hearts, but it affects our ability to properly see people (even God) in our life.  Everything becomes twisted and perverted into our lust and desire for more wealth.  Yet, this can even affect your ability to see the Truth of God when He is standing right in front of you.  People would miss Messiah because their eyes were captures (as well as their hearts) with wealth.

When we are generous, it fills our hearts and minds with the light of Jesus.  However, when we are greedy and stingy it fills us with darkness (every evil thing). 

The point is not about having wealth.  It is about how it affects your heart and eyes.  Jesus is not saying, “If your bank account is above a certain amount, then you are full of darkness.”  Rather, it is similar to the statement that it is impossible for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven.  Jesus follows it up with another truth, “but all things are possible with God.”  Similarly, on our own, wealth will conquer our heart and eyes.  We will become hypocritical slaves to it.  But, with Jesus, we can make wealth our slave for His purposes.

Jesus drills home just how bad this problem is.  In the natural, a bad eye simply keeps you from seeing.  However, a greedy, covetous eye is a spiritual problem.  It doesn’t just block light (truth), but also sends darkness into the soul (the whole body).  You become “full of darkness.”  The darkness here is not just the absence of light.  It is something more substantial.  It represents a soul that is lusting with all manner of vice.

Think of it this way.  It is bad not to see when the lights are not turned on.  Israel had received some light in the Law, but the prophets had spoke of a coming Messiah who would give the full light of God.  We can’t blame them for not fully seeing the truth of God.  However, when the lights are turned on (Messiah comes) and we still can’t see, then you find out that something is wrong with your eyes.  The Pharisees and Sadducees were revealing that their eyes and hearts were generally bad all along.

So the problem of heaping up earthly wealth starts by becoming the love of your heart.  It then also affects your ability to benefit from the light of God that you have received.  How can you fix such a problem?  In the natural, there is little that can be done for a blind person, but we are speaking of spiritual matters.  The only solution to spiritual blindness is repentance.  It is casting down the idol that has your heart and going after God.  The sad truth is that we have played a large part in our own blindness because our hearts lusted after things over the top of people and especially God.

The master of your life (v. 24)

A man whose heart is captured by earthly wealth, and whose eye is gripped by greed and stinginess, is a man whose life is filled with darkness.  This leads Jesus to challenge us on who our master truly is.  Is He, who is the Master of the universe, the master of me?  This is easier said than done. 

To the religious leaders, wealth was a sign of God’s blessing upon them.  Yet, they didn’t rightly answer the question, “Why has He blessed me with wealth?”  Most likely, they felt that it was proof that they were such a righteous person and so pleasing to God.  Yet, the truth is that God tests us with wealth in order to see if we will care for our poor brother or not.

The relationship with wealth and things is that wealth enables you to get anything that you want.  This is how it becomes our master.  We will do anything to keep it and amass more of it.  In the end, it rules us and we become its slaves.

Jesus brings up the classical problem of conflicting allegiances.  You cannot be serving your desire for wealth and God at the same time.  You will be drawn one way or the other.  Even selling all of your possessions in order to follow Jesus cannot guarantee that wealth will cease to be an idol in your life.  Idolatry is loving and desiring anything above God.

When we make wealth (or anything else for that matter) an idol in our life, it becomes a worthless and impotent thing.  Nothing in this world can be God to you, but God Himself.  We actually destroy the things in our life by making them into idols. 

It is not that God doesn’t want us to have thing.  The things we have in our life are His goodness and grace.  We should be filled with thanksgiving and fully enjoy them.  But, at the end of the day, if I have to choose between the things and Jesus, I need to choose Jesus.  Otherwise, they have become an idol to me.

It is interesting that Jesus uses the word “mammon.”  Most versions translate this as money or wealth.  This is fine.  However, it seems obvious that Jesus is giving a play on words.  He has been using phrases that keep pointing back to the Exodus.  Jesus is the New Moses come to lead them in a New Exodus.  In the Lord’s prayer, he talks about our daily bread, which is reminiscent of Israel in the wilderness with the manna.  I believe he uses the word mammon because they would have been thinking about the manna in the wilderness just moments before (Daily bread is in verse 11 and this is verse 24).

Just as they didn’t need to worry about their daily bread (manna), so they don’t need to worry about having enough money (mammon).  “Man doesn’t live by bread alone.”  We tend to take this as natural bread, but in the context, it begs to be seen as the manna.  Man doesn’t live by the manna alone, but by the fact that the God of heaven decreed that you were to be given it.  We must learn to rest in God’s care for us, rather than amassing wealth so that we can stop being anxious.  Spoiler alert:  the more money you amass the more fearful you will become about losing it.  If money is your idol, you will never be more anxious than when you have a lot of it.

Life has a way of testing us and trying us.  Do we want God or do we want wealth?  If you are serving wealth, then there is going to be a conflict some day.  Do you really love God?  You will find out on the day choosing God will lose you all your wealth.

Yet, Jesus brings up something more than love.  “He will be loyal to the one and despise the other.”  Loyalty and despising have to do with how much you value something.  Would you rather have God than all the gold in the world?  It is easy to say so when no one is offering us all the gold in the world.  In countless many ways, we make choices that declare God’s true value to us.  This is a good place to start looking. 

Jesus, please show me all the ways in which I am saying that something else is more valuable to me than you.  And then, Lord help me to choose You over them.

This reminds me of Isaiah 53:3-4.  Speaking of Messiah Jesus, it says, “He is despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief.  And we hid, as it were, our faces from Him; He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.  Surely He has borne our griefs and carried our sorrows; Yet we esteemed Him stricken, smitten by God, and afflicted.”

It is a scary thing to live your whole life saying that you love God, but when He reveals Himself, you value Him little.  This is the big reveal of the Old Testament prophets.  Of course, the nations would be in trouble when God came down to judge.  However, Isaiah shows us that even the people of God who claim to love Him and value Him greatly, would despise Him and walk on by.  Imagine not choosing God and esteeming created things over the top of the Creator.  We should value God above the things that He can give us.  We should be thankful to the Giver for the gifts that He gives, but we should never let them have our heart, damage our spiritual eyes, and make us a hypocritical slave to things.

Pitfalls audio

Sermon on the Mount IX

Subtitle:  Fulfilling the Torah and the Prophets of God VII

Matthew 5:43-48.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on February 4, 2024.

Today, we will finish the Master’s look at what it means to fulfill the Law.  In a sense, this is the sixth case-study, but it is also a summary for all of the others.  It challenges us to recognize all of the ways that we have been an enemy to people, choosing a path that is of the evil one.  It challenges us to see how we have not chosen to take the path of our Father in Heaven, and to change.

This law focuses not on how someone becomes an enemy to us, but on what do we do with those who are already our enemies, and for whatever reason.

Let’s look at our passage.

The Law of Enemies (v. 43-48)

Jesus lays out the teaching of the current day on how we treat our enemies.  “Love your neighbor, and hate your enemies.”  In a sense, you only love the people that God commands.

The idea of loving your neighbor can be inferred from the Ten Commandments of Exodus 20.  Jesus said that all of the Law and the prophets can be summed up in loving God and loving your neighbor. 

Of course, a legalist would ask the question.  “Just who is my neighbor?”  Jesus answers that later (Luke 10:25-37) with the parable of the Good Samaritan.  Here, however, Jesus jumps right by our neighbor and goes to the heart of the issue, our enemy.

Leviticus 19:18 says, “You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the children of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD!”

This passage does focus on neighbors being of your own nation or people.  However, there are other passages that add to this.

Take, for instance, Exodus 23:4-5.  It talks about helping your enemy, if you come upon him while he is in a difficult situation (most likely assumed to be another Israelite).  Don’t take advantage of them.  Also, Deuteronomy 23:7 tell Israel not to hate the Edomites and the Egyptians.

On top of this, the Law and the prophets signal a desire of God to bless the nations, whether through Abraham (Genesis 12) or Messiah (Isaiah 42, 49, and 60).  God cared about the nations, and Israel was His tool to reach them with the Truth.

So, how did the religious leaders come to the conclusion that we should hate our enemies?  It is a natural inference from the idea that God is going to judge the nations who have hated Him.  It would make sense that we should not love those who hate God.  Yet, God’s long delay for judging His enemies begs a lot of questions.  Why wouldn’t He just judge them and get it over with?  Did God really want Israel to hate His enemies?

I mentioned several prophetic passages earlier.  It is clear that there is some tension between a judgment of the nations and the light of Messiah going out to the nations.  Jesus is now shining the light of day upon this murky area.

Jesus tells his followers to love their enemies, which is the exact opposite of what they would have been told by the religious leaders.  We are not given any commentary on the crowd, but I have to believe that their were some audible gasps at this point.  It had to be a shock.  Perhaps, we could ask the question (like the young man in Luke 10 regarding his neighbors), “What exactly do you mean by love?”   Is Jesus telling us that we have to have fuzzy warm feelings for our enemies?  No.  The word for love here has to do with an intellectual choice that is not dependent upon the person we give it to.  It is a love of decision.

Jesus goes on to point out three particular ways to love your enemy.  The first is, “Bless those who curse you.”  This deals with the area of speech.  How do we talk about those who talk evil of us?  The second is, “Do good to those who hate you.”  This deals with the area of our actions.  What kinds of things do we do to those who hate us?  The third is, “Pray for those who spitefully use you (treat abusively) and persecute you.”  This is the area of our spiritual life.

I don’t believe that Jesus intends us to pray for their destruction.  The previous two examples clearly show a good and righteous response to the actions that are not good and righteous towards us.  This needs to be a prayer that can be categorized as loving, a choice to work for their good.

This doesn’t mean that we approve of what people do when they curse, hate, abuse and persecute others.  It doesn’t even mean that we pray for them to be happy in life.  A person who chooses to be an enemy to you is not following the Lord Jesus Christ.  They are lost.  Perhaps, that is what we should pray for them.  “Lord, help me to respond in such a way that they may turn away from being an enemy and turn towards being a brother in you!”

We need to understand that love is a weapon.  People who are doing evil are generally not prepared for someone to love them.  I guarantee you that no evil person has spent a minute training on what to do when somebody loves them.  The enemy of our souls (the devil) intends their actions to destroy your faith.  However, what do you think God intends to do by your actions back towards them?  He intends to break them free from the devil’s hold on their life.  He intends to break them free from a life of anger, contempt, fear, rage, abuse, etc.

The natural question rises at this point, “Who in their right mind would love those who curse, hate, and persecute them?”  Jesus follows up quickly with the answer why in verse 45.

Every person ought to ask the question, “Who is my Father, and what is He like?”  Jesus points us to God who is firstly our Creator, and for those who have responded by faith, a spiritual Father.  This new birth is necessary to enter the Kingdom of Heaven.  This picture of a child beginning to look like its father is important.  If you want to be a child of God, then you need to pay attention to what He is like. 

The image of God is more about spiritual things then it is about our physical appearance.  We automatically have the status of an imager of God by simply being human, natural birth.  However, status is not enough.  The activity of my life needs to be a portrayal of the Father.  This may sound extremely abstract, but look at the examples that Jesus gives following this.  “[He] makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.”  God gives sunshine and rain to everyone.  Yes, God can affect the weather and send droughts.  However, don’t miss the fact that God generally gives these things to all peoples.  Even with these particular judgments, God gives far more grace to the wicked than they deserve. 

This can cause those who are trying to be righteous to have a crisis of faith.  We may begin to doubt the goodness of God.  “Why does He bless those who curse Him?”  And, it may even cause us to doubt His very existence.  “What good is it to serve God, if the wicked are blessed too?”  Of course, these are very short-sighted questions.  What good is it if a person never has drought, nor an empty belly, but they go into eternity and are found lacking by the Judge?  Why am I having a crisis of faith because God is being kind and showing goodness?

To love your enemy is not to say that what they do is good.  To love your enemy does not justify them in what they are doing.  It could be said that it increases their guilt, if they don’t cease their enemy-ways.  Yes, God will judge all people, and He will judge all the nations at once in what is called the Last Days.  If God is good, then why does He delay judgment?  It is because He is not willing that any should perish.  To love your enemy is to recognize that they will be judged and found guilty.  Yet, God doesn’t want them to perish.  God desires them to have a change of heart, repent, and enter His Kingdom like little children.

Romans 2:4 says, “…the goodness of God leads you to repentance.” They may never repent, but God’s goodness gives them a chance.  If we choose to go into eternity over the top of all of God’s goodness, then He will judge you.  But, always remember this.  He doesn’t want you to be His enemy.

This becomes a heart check in which we all fail.  We do not naturally want this for our enemies.  We are not this compassionate and selfless, but God is; Jesus is.  Yet, don’t be discouraged.  This is what it means to follow Jesus.  Our flesh fights it, but the Spirit of God helps us to overcome.  Lord, change our hearts with each trial and decision that we face.  Let us become more like you!

In verse 46 Jesus gives some if-statements that challenge the kind of love that we might have for others.  He uses the verb form of agape for love here.  It is the idea of choosing to love, as opposed to a love that is more based in the heart (i.e., familial love, brotherly love, or romantic love).  If you only choose to love those who chose to love you, then how are you different than the world?  Tax collectors and Gentiles tend do this with those who choose to love them.  Notice that God chooses to love His enemies (i.e., act for their benefit).  Their life is still limited.  They will face judgment.  But, He is good to them while they live.

In fact, one of the greatest good things that God has done is design the universe with a principle of cause-and-effect.  Even when people dismiss the word of God, and refuse to listen to His followers, cause and effect meets them at every poor choice that they make.  Their evil acts themselves draw them into evil consequences that naturally follow their actions, words, and inner life.  Through consequences, God is calling them back away from the ledge that they are intent on plunging off.  This reality, along with His goodness, is a powerful part of everyone’s life.  There is a goodness to consequences that we may not yet even understand fully.

Jesus asks his followers to leave judgment in the hands of the only One who can do so perfectly.  We can trust God to do the right thing.  In fact, our hunger for justice and setting things right often leads to all kinds of evil things that we do.  You risk losing your own soul when you rise up to be an enemy to your enemies, when you hate them.  Besides, we really stink at getting justice for ourselves.  We carry the bloody flag against everyone else, but do not recognize that this is a conflict of interest.  It would be like having you play in the Super Bowl, but also be the only one who is the referee in the game.  There is too much at stake to expect that you will always make a righteous call.  So, why not leave it to God?  Why not work to make your enemy your brother instead?  Why not save yourself from a lifetime of hate, contempt, rage, death, and then a fearful judgment from God?

Finally, Jesus lays down a statement that is very fearful on its face.  “You shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.”  I’m sure there were some gasps on that one as well.

This phrase is interesting because it is in the future tense.  Therefore, Jesus is stating that you (plural) will be perfect in the future.  There is an encouragement of assurance in this.  He who has begun a good work in you will be faithful to complete it. 

However, the Hebrews also used the second person future as a way of giving a command to someone about something ahead.  This nuance adds another dimension to the statement.  There is no question that God will do His part in this.  However, this sermon has had several places of warning throughout it.  We might hear these wonderful words, but not persevere in following the Messiah.  We might grow weary, lose faith, and walk away.  Thus, this is also a command to be perfect.

Of course, the flesh of every human who has ever lived protests such a statement.  How can God expect us to be perfect?  First, let me point out that the Greek word for “perfect” here does not mean to never mess up.  It is actually a term that is used in building, growing, planning, etc.  A building has many stages to it, but we call the last stage the finish work.  When the house is ready, it is perfect, finished, completed.  It is what we intended it to be.  You are a child spiritually, but children grow up and become adults.  You shall be perfect, complete, finished.  God essentially guarantees it.  Yet, you must have faith in Him, in Jesus, and persevere in this fight against our flesh by the Spirit.

When we say a baby is perfect, we mean that it is exactly what it should be for the stage it is in.  However, if the baby never grew, we would quickly become concerned and not think of it as perfect.  Quit thinking of this like a legalist, and begin thinking of it in terms of the love of God.  As you die to your righteousness, come alive to His righteousness, and rely upon His Spirit to help you learn to love your enemies, then you will be a perfect baby Christian learning to walk, then run, and finally fly.  It is our relationship with Jesus through the Holy Spirit that makes our life perfect, even when there are dumb choices, and sin that we need to repent of.

In this life, Christians are not instantly zapped and made into the image of God.  Ephesians 4 12-13 pictures us growing up into the measure and the stature and the fullness of Christ.  This may feel hopeless at times, but should not co-labor with the Holy Spirit in hopelessness.  God is on your side.  How can you lose?  And how can you lose even when you fall down from time to time?  Jesus is the author (it was his idea) and the finisher (he will complete you) of our faith.  Guess when you will be done becoming like Jesus?  At the resurrection, God will accomplish the coupe de grâce (I mean that in an artistic way and not a military way).  Can we just take a deep breath right now and rest in the truth that we shall be like Him?  Yes, there is plenty of hard things to go through down here, and there is plenty of things that we may suffer.  However, we do these things with our LORD!  There is a certain glory that we have to go to war against our flesh, and against the devil’s work on this planet.  We were made to destroy the works of the devil with the help of Jesus!  We start by destroying the works of the devil in our own heart and mind by the help of His Holy Spirit.  Let’s go to work with Jesus this week!

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Romans 12:9-10.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on February 7, 2021.

In Mark 12:29-31, Jesus gave us the two greatest commandments, which are really two sides of the same coin.  We are to love God with all of our being (heart, soul, mind, and strength), and we are to love our neighbor as ourselves.  Later, Jesus modified this second command among his disciples.  “Love one another, as I have loved you.”  That is quite the qualifier.  It is one thing to love one another as we think we should, but to love in the way Jesus did would be to love sacrificially and selflessly.

I say that these two commands are two sides of the same coin because the Apostle John challenges us in his first letter with this.  How can you say you love God, whom you haven’t seen, when you can’t even love your brother, whom you have?  Yes, it is easy to give lip service to loving God because he is not physically on this earth.  It is more difficult to test.  In fact, shouldn’t we see the second command as the litmus test of whether or not we truly love God?  I think so.

Let’s remind ourselves today to strengthen this duty that we have to love one another, the duty to love.

We are to love without hypocrisy

The command to love one anther is simple enough, but throughout Scripture, we are given qualifiers from time to time.  In Romans 12:9, it is qualified with a negative phrase, “without hypocrisy.”  Some translations have chosen to emphasize the positive implication of this phrase.  NIV says, “Love must be sincere.”  ESV says, “Let love be genuine.”  The NLT attempts to put both the negative phrase and its positive implication together.  “Don’t just pretend to love others.  Really love them.”

The reason that we need these qualifiers is because the actions of people do not always match up with their words.  There is an irony in our country today that, while we talk more and more of loving each other and being united, we are seeing more and more anger and hatred.  This is not a new thing.  There have always been those who said they were loving, but in the end they were not.  They weren’t sincere, or genuine.  In short, they were hypocrites.

The word hypocrisy, that we are not supposed to mix in with our loving of one another, was a word that came from acting in plays.  The New Testament writers took the word and used it to refer the moral evil of a person merely acting as if they are doing good.  Such people were wearing the acting mask of love, but behind that external mask, there were unloving motivations.

Acting is a powerful medium for getting a message across when people know that it is an act.  It helps us to think about the same situation as a group.  Of course, it can be manipulated to try and pressure the group to think certain things, which is itself a form of hypocrisy.  It pretends to open up discussion on a situation, but in truth is trying to force all to think the same. 

Let’s just say the obvious.  Christians are not called to make an amazing movie about love, whether on a screen or in our lives.  We are to be doing it, for real.  In other words, we are to live a life of love that is worthy of a movie, not to give a performance that people are willing to watch.  It is the difference between being an actor and being the real thing.  If Hollywood stars are any measure of actors, we know that actors are often empty of the good things that they portray, or at least fall very short of it.

Wearing masks with one another and having a superficial love is not God’s plan, and we need the help of the Holy Spirit to be brave enough to take them off.  Warning- when you try to take of masks, those who are still wearing them will be uncomfortable with it (even you will be uncomfortable with it).

Paul then describes what hypocrisy-free love looks like with two verbal phrases.  The first is “abhor that which is bad.”  While we love one another, we should be abhorring, or detesting, that which is evil.  Paul chooses a strong word here.  Christians are not to treat moral evil lightly.  In 1 Corinthians 13, Paul also writes, “love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.”

Moral evil is defined throughout Scriptures, and it is all those negative vices and activities that God warns against, of which hypocrisy is just one.  This is not just an instruction for me about the other person and their sin.  Rather, it starts with me.  I must detest and shrink back from the tendency to be insincere, or any other moral evil, in my “love.”  I must fight the internal battle of keeping my heart pure towards God and my fellow man.

Of course, when loving others, we will have to face their imperfections and sinful tendencies (and they ours).  Love never means coddling that which is evil.  Our society likes to pick and choose who it loves and what evil is protected.  This must never be among Christians, those who say that they are following Christ, rather than our culture. 

An example of this has to do with public advice that is often given to people in difficult situations.  A case in point is a letter that was written to Dear Abbey.  A mother’s adult daughter, who had been raised to be a Christian, had embraced homosexuality.  The mom was struggling with what it means to continue to love her daughter when she was embracing something that was morally evil (by Christ’s definition).  Dear Abbey’s advice was a surrender to cultural influence in which she was counselled to embrace her daughter and the homosexual lifestyle she was living.  Ultimately, our hearts can be pulled into evil even out of a misguided love.  Loving someone in this situation is something Christians should do, but not in a way that embraces the harmful choices of the individual.  I know that this is 180 degrees the opposite of today’s “wisdom,” but we are followers of Jesus, not today’s culture (or are we?).

The second verbal phrase is the positive implication of the previous.  We must love while holding fast, or clinging, to that which is good.  Most people tend to one side or the other.  We can focus only on detesting evil, and it becomes an excuse to disregard and ignore people who God loves.  On the other hand, we can focus only on clinging to what is good, and ignore the moral evil that is piling up around us.  Christians are called to the hard road of truly loving others, as Jesus loved us.  It is hypocrisy to say that we love someone, but then not really face sin in our life or theirs.  It is hypocrisy to call this love, or to pretend that love calls us to overlook sin, or at least redefine it.  It is also hypocrisy to write someone off because of their sins and failures, and not try to lift that which is good.

This tension is mentioned by Paul in Galatians 6:1, “Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently.  But watch yourselves, or you may also be tempted.”  Jude mentions this tension in verses 22 and 23 of his letter.  “Be merciful to those who are doubting; but others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire, hating even the garment defiled by flesh.”  Even a person who is so destroyed by sin that they are essentially being thrown into the fire of destruction, we are to attempt to save, yet being careful not to be caught up in their sin.  This is a love that is tough on the person doing it and tough on the person receiving it.  However, it is only truth that can set you free.  Fake love helps no one, period.

We are to love as family

Another qualifier is given for our love in verse 10 of Romans 12.  We must love each other with the love that we would have for family members.  Christians are called the “household of faith,” “the children of God,” and we are destined to be the adult Sons and Daughters of God in eternity.  It is not that we pretend that the other is family.  In Christ, we actually are.  Paul uses two words that refer to this family love.  “Brotherly love” is the obvious one.  However, the “kindly affectioned” phrase is actually a word that speaks of the love between parents and children.

Our biological families are a microcosm of the larger family of God that we join when we become followers of Christ.  Even our local church is simply a microcosm of the larger family of God worldwide, and history-wide.  Like Israel coming out of Egypt, we are a part of a large nation of very different people who all will inherit form the same Father, who loves us all.  It is easy to forget that we are family in Christ, and that our Father wants us to learn to get along and love each other.  This is not a suggestion, or something that we can work on when everything else is done.  It is the litmus test of our love for God.  “Do you love me?  Then, feed my sheep,” aka, love my children.

Lastly, Paul speaks of humbly honoring others.  Sibling rivalry, or just family squabbles, are destined to happen because none of us are perfect yet.  Even those who are spiritual elders are not perfected yet.  It is easy to chafe at other believers, like siblings, and it is easy to have tensions between spiritual elders and young believers.  These things are a natural part of being family.  However, we are to work on them with the kind of attitude that takes the lead in honoring the other.  The NKJV translates, “preferring one another.”  This misses the mark in my opinion.  The word being translated has the concept of going ahead of others in this area of honoring.  The clash is that our tendency is to honor ourselves and “go ahead” by pushing ourselves above others.  If we are to “go ahead of others,” it is not to be in honoring ourselves, but in honoring them.

Honor has to do with value and worth.  We love what has value and worth to us, and yet, in our imperfection, we often value things that we shouldn’t and disvalue, dishonor, what we shouldn’t.  Believers have a value to one another that isn’t always understood by us because we get wrapped up in the thinking of our age.  Instead of seeing one another through God’s yes, and through His purposes, we can only see through the world’s eyes and its purposes, or our own selfish purposes.  The challenge to love in today’s atmosphere is only becoming more difficult.  This cannot be used as an excuse.  There are attempts from the culture to polarize and divide God’s people.  May God help us to resist these blatant attacks on God’s Church, and to remain in fellowship with the Spirit of God and His people.

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