The First Letter of Peter- 1

Subtitle: The Chosen Foreigners of Jesus Christ

1 Peter 1:1-4. This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, November 16, 2025.

We start the first letter of Peter today.  It is one of two letters written by Peter, one of the three closest apostles of Jesus.  He was an eyewitness of the transfiguration of Jesus before His resurrection.  His actual name was Shimon (Hebrew) or Simon (Greek/Latin).  However, Jesus gave him the nick name in Aramaic of Kephas (also Cephas).  John 1:42 tells us this and that Peter is the Greek translation of his Aramaic name Kephas.  Both of these names mean “rock” or “stone.”

This fisherman from the Sea of Galilee is most known as being an apostle to the Jews following the death and resurrection of Jesus.  However, we did see in the Book of the Acts of the Apostles that Peter ministered to Samaritans and Gentiles as well, especially when he traveled outside of Jerusalem.

Paul mentions in his letter to the Galatians that Peter was at Syrian Antioch for a time.  It is quite likely that Peter also visited other Gentile dominated areas in order to vouchsafe for the churches that were cropping up particularly from the ministry of Paul and others with him.

This brings to a point about the audience of this letter.  Some believe that Peter is addressing Jewish Christians and only tangentially speaks to Gentiles.  However, the letter does not make this distinction.  Peter appears to be addressing churches as predominately Gentiles.

Let’s get into the letter.

Peter’s greeting (v. 1-2)

Peter starts out by identifying himself.  He is Peter an apostle of Jesus Christ.

There is a sense in which all Christians have an apostolic calling because we are sent by Christ to take the Gospel to the world around us.  In fact, this apostolic calling should be seen upon the background of what Hebrews 3:1 tells us.  Jesus is the Apostle and High Priest of our confession.  Jesus was sent or commissioned by the Father to do a priestly duty among us. 

Yet, Apostle is used in a stricter sense throughout the New Testament.  Just as God moved upon the Old Testament prophets in order that Israel, and eventually the world, would know His will, so He worked in particular people in order to lay down a trustworthy record of what Jesus taught and did, including his death, resurrection and ascension.  They were eyewitnesses of these things.

These apostles were taught directly by Jesus and commissioned by him to lay the foundation of teaching for the church.  These basically became the requirements of any writing that was accepted as inspired by the Holy Spirit (1. Taught by Jesus, 2. Witnessed the resurrected Jesus, 3. Commissioned by Jesus to establish the Gospel in the world).

Notice that he says that he is an apostle of Jesus Christ.  It is easy to see “Christ” and forget that it is a declaration that Jesus is the Messiah, the Anointed One sent from God to save us.  Thus, Peter is one of the men specially sent by Jesus the Messiah in order to declare his teachings and the Good News of his work of salvation.

We should note that Revelation 21 presents the New Jerusalem as symbolically depicting the Church of Jesus.  It is a real place, but its design and setup are also symbolic.  Notice that the walls of this city, which speak of an impenetrable defense, are built upon the 12 foundations of the apostles.  This can also be interpreted as the 12 foundation stones of the apostles.  Thus, it could be picturing 12 layers of foundation, but most likely refer to 12 foundation stones placed side by side (3 to a side).

Peter then tells us who the recipients of his letter are to be.  These are not cities, but provinces of the Roman Empire.  Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia and Bithynia describe most of the isthmus we call Türkiye today.  These were the places where the Apostle Paul established churches during his missionary journeys.  Most likely, some of these churches were founded by churches that were founded by Paul.  Just as Peter eventually went to Antioch of Syria to see the Christians there so it is probable that he may have traveled through some of these areas.  If he did, then it would make sense to send a letter to these churches.  If he did not, then Peter did the next best thing.  He sent a letter to these churches in order to ensure that they would have solid doctrine and encouragement upon which to build the work of Christ in their cities and towns.

Peter also refers to them as “chosen.”  This is also translated as “elect.”  They have been chosen by God for salvation.  This is not in the sense that God plays favorites among humans.  Those who would humble themselves and embrace the crucified and resurrected Jesus as their savior, He chose in eternity past as the ones He would save.

Legally (if such can be said of God), He doesn’t have to save anyone, but His nature of Grace, Compassion, Slowness to Anger, Steadfast Covenant-Keeping Love, and Faithful Truth, compels Him to save those who can be saved.  Thus, the Good Samaritan does a good job of imaging God the Father.  He sees us bleeding and dying on the side of the road.  Instead of going on past us, He comes to our aid.  However, He will force no man.  If a person would rather wait for a Levitical Priest, Rabbi, anyone else but Jesus, then He will leave them be, though He may continue to appeal to them in love.

We have a choice to make.  Will we let a Samaritan heal us and save us, or will we look for another?  You can step into the ranks of the Chosen today by putting your faith in Jesus.

Peter also describes these Chosen Ones as Strangers, Pilgrims, Foreigners, Aliens, Sojourners.  Those who have been chosen from among the Gentiles and Jews, in order to follow Messiah Jesus dwell, dwell in this world as if they were foreigners to it, no matter where they live.  Before you believed in Christ, you were a local, a citizen of the place you lived, but now in Christ, you have become a foreigner, a citizen of a heavenly kingdom.  You no longer live as you used to live following the vain culture of your people.

Peter is using terminology that was connected to the patriarchs of Israel, Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.  In Genesis 23:3-4, Abraham asks the people of the land of Canaan for a plot of land.  “I am a stranger and a sojourner among you; give me a burial site among you that I may bury my dead out of my sight.”

Hebrews 11 emphasizes that the Patriarchs lived as foreigners in the Land of Promise awaiting the time in which God would give it over to them (Heb. 11:9-10, 15-16).  They did not take to the cities of the Canaanites, but dwelled as nomads, waiting for God’s timing.

This world is our inheritance.  Jesus said so in Matthew 5:5, “Blessed are the meek (humble) for they shall inherit the earth.”  However, we dwell as nomads within it today, Jews and Gentiles alike.  Yet, we have been chosen by God to receive it one day as an inheritance.

This brings us to the last reference in verse 1.  They are “scattered throughout” these areas.  The word behind this is where we get the idea of a diaspora, a dispersed people.  Like seeds, they will lay down their lives in death in order to bring forth life in the areas they have been planted.

In truth, both the wicked and the righteous of Israel were scattered among the nations.  It was a judgment to the wicked as their nation is destroyed and they are cast out into exile.  Yet, it was a blessing in the righteous ones.  They were broadcast like precious seed in order to be a blessing and raise up righteous fruit from among the Gentiles.  Righteous Israelites were literally scattered, but the Gentiles who join them, join the ranks of the Scattered Ones.  They will lay down their lives in death in order to bring forth the life of Christ in the lands in which they lived as foreigners!

In verse 2, Peter says that all of this was foreknown, or foreseen, by God.  By this, we speak of the need of salvation and the mechanism by which God would provide it.  He knew that we would fall into great sin and degradation.  We would need saving, but only some would embrace the salvation that God would provide.

This foreknowledge is partially the idea that God can see the future.  He didn’t actively choose to make something happen, but He knew it would.  Each of these items then could be permitted or stopped by God because He is sovereign over all things.  We should make a clear distinction between the things that God permits us to do and the things that He actively makes to happen.

Jesus came at just the right time, a time when the Law would have had a complete work upon the conscience of Israel, a time when men would rule over Israel that would kill His Anointed Son, a time when the faith of Israel would be hanging by a thread, and a time when the Gentiles would be weary of serving false gods that they had been serving.  At such a time, God sent His One and Only Son.

He foresaw how they would act and the choices that they would make.  He chose this time on purpose to accomplish His will, to provide a means for removing our sin and guilt.

God has also seen and chosen how to respond to the rejection of the Gospel of the Messiah by the nations.  We see it clearly that the politics of the nations, by in large, reject Jesus and his commands.  Even in the Christian West, we mostly see lip service to Jesus.

Thus, a day of judgment has been set by the Father.  A day has been appointed for the Son of Man, Jesus, to come on the clouds of heaven in order to put down the usurpers.  He will take up the kingdoms of the world with the saints at His side!  My friend, you want to be at his side on that day!

We are the chosen foreigners of Jesus the Messiah also by the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit.  The sanctifying work is the means by which He makes us holy.  This can be seen in two ways.

We are holy in that we have been set apart as belonging to Christ.  We are the people who bear His name and belong to Him.  It is like a legal status change.  This holiness of being takes place as the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in us.

However, we are also holy in that the Spirit dwelling in us begins to teach us and empower us to live out the righteousness of Jesus.  This progressive holiness is a holiness of practice.  In our flesh, we fail and would be disqualified, but the sanctifying work of the Holy Spirit teaches us to repent, to be cleansed by Him and to be renewed in our fervor for our Lord.

Both the Word of God and the Holy Spirit are connected to the cleansing of the believer (Ephesians 5:26; Titus 3:5).  In this world and on our own, we become more and more defiled spiritually before God.  However, the Word and the Spirit work to cleanse us and make us holy in practice.

Of course, this sanctifying work of the Spirit is why Peter then refers to obeying Jesus the Messiah.  This is not an obedience where we never fail.  Repentance is just as much a part of obeying Jesus as the other commands.  In other words, his commands have incorporated our weaknesses through repentance and forgiveness.

Peter also mentions that we are sprinkled with His blood.  This furthers the picture of a holy people.  Just as the priests were sprinkled with blood as a consecration to their ministry for God so these are cleansed and consecrated to minister on behalf of Messiah Jesus.  Essentially, Peter is recognizing these Gentile Christians as being grafted into the Holy work that God has been doing through the Patriarchs, Israel, and now the Church of Messiah.  All of these are part of the same root.

His greeting then closes with a prayer that grace and peace would be theirs in the fullest measure.

Grace is a gift from God that should cause joy to the recipient.  Peace is the restful assurance that comes from God’s Spirit dwelling within us, teaching, correcting and leading us.  It is God’s desire that we receive and rejoice in His many gifts and grace to us.  It is also His desire that we have restful assurance of His faithfulness in saving us.

Of course, if we look at the storms, we can lose our peace and joy in God’s grace.  If we are to have His grace and peace to the fullest measure as much as is possible in this life, we will need God’s help.

Praise to God for His salvation (v. 3-4)

To bless God is to praise God.  The word has the sense of speaking good things to and about Him.  In this case, Peter is praising God for His wonderful work of salvation through Jesus.

Father God is the source of the purpose and will to save us.  The Father here emphasizes the relationship between God and man, but specifically God the Father and His eternal Son, the Word.  At a point in time, the Word took on mortal flesh and receives the name Jesus, Yeshua, the Salvation of Yahweh!

To speak of the Lord Jesus Christ emphasizes three aspects of the One whom the Father used to save us.  “Lord” speaks of his authority.  He is the King of kings and Lord of lords.  None are higher than him in heaven or on earth, other than God the Father (see Colossians 1:15-20.

“Jesus” speaks to his humanity.  He was fully human and lived a life of perfect obedience to the Father.  He is the Son of Man who perfectly imaged God the Father, and thus, he obtained all that God had delegated to humanity, making salvation possible for us in the midst of it.

“Christ” emphasizes his role.  He is the One who has the Anointing of God’s Holy Spirit in such a measure (full) that He can save and deliver the worst sinner, and the most wounded of people. 

“He has caused us to be born again…”  There is a true spiritual work that happens inside of a person when they repent and put their faith in Jesus.  This is the backdrop of the discussion Jesus had with Nicodemus in John 3.  To be born again is to have a spiritual birth.  It is also thought of as being born from above (a spiritual birth that is made possible by God Himself).  You were born in an earthly manner by the will of humans, but you must be born in a spiritual manner by the will of God.

We are now alive and able to respond to the Spirit of God.  Yet, we start as spiritual babies and must grow up spiritually.

“According to His great mercy,” this new birth makes us a new creation but also has a sense of mercy in it.  “Mercy” refers to the fact that our salvation is motivated by a pity or compassion over our destitute situation.  God is pained to see us in this condition and is moved to do a work of salvation for us.  This is a tension between the purpose for which God made us and our fallen condition.  He did not make us to suffer under sin on into eternity.

Humans can lose compassion and mercy very quickly, but God is full of mercy and grace.  It is great in quantity and great in quality.  We could say that the pain of the cross was more than counter-balanced by the pain of what would be in the heart of God if He didn’t pay the price to redeem us from sin.

We don’t deserve salvation, but God is pained to see us in a state of being lost.  How can I say, “No,” to such a love?

We were born again to “a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus from the dead.”  A dead hope may seem to be no hope at all, but the resurrection of Jesus changes everything.  Death suddenly is filled with hope in Him.  His resurrection from the dead assures our resurrection.  It also assures us of the fact that his sacrifice on behalf of our sins has been accepted by God the Father.

Jesus Himself becomes our hope, who is alive at the right hand of the father.  We hope in what he has done, but also in what He is going to do.  We live our life, not for the dead hopes of this world, but for the living hope of Christ Himself!

Verse 4 ends with another thing that we have been saved to receive, an inheritance.  Our inheritance is to dwell with Jesus for eternity, wherever that may be.  Our mortal frame would rather have it all now, but we receive a foretaste of what awaits us.  Our resurrection becomes the moment of fully stepping into that inheritance that God has for those who believe in Jesus.

It is an inheritance that cannot perish, corrupt or die.  It is an inheritance that cannot be defiled by sin.  It does not fade, which speaks of the glory of the inheritance.  Like Moses coming down from the mountain with face all aglow, we will stand glowing in glory alongside of Christ.  However, in contrast to the glory of Moses then, we will all participate in the unfading glory of Christ along with Moses!

This inheritance is reserved for us in the heavens (at the right hand of the Father).  No person on earth or wicked spirit of the heavens can wrest our living hope from the hands of the Father.  May God help us to rejoice in His great purpose for us, both now in our mortal frame and then in our glorified bodies!

Chosen Foreigners audio

Letter to the Colossian Church- 16

Subtitle: Partners in Ministry II

Colossians 4:12-18.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, November 9, 2025.

Today, we will finish this letter.  Paul continues listing various ones who are with him and send their greetings to the church in Colossae.

Let’s look at our passage.

Epaphras (v. 12-13)

Paul recognizes that Epaphras is one of their number.  This is a way of saying that he is a believer from the church in Colossae.  In fact, we should remind ourselves of Colossians 1:7. There we are told that Epaphras is the one who brought the Gospel to Colossae.  Apparently, he became a believer in Messiah Jesus while away, and then he went back to his hometown to share the Gospel with them.

Paul refers to Epaphras as a slave of Jesus Christ.  Epaphras was technically a freeman, but he lived his life like Paul, as a slave to the will and purpose of Jesus Christ.

It may be more powerful for a free person speaks of themselves as being a slave of Christ.  However, even slaves could embrace being a slave of Christ.  Though an earthly master may have claim over their body, the Lord Jesus has claim over our body and soul.

As Americans, we are all about our freedoms and rights.  There is a place for that, but we are not to use our freedom as a license for sin (Jude 1:4).  Which is more important, the freedom to do whatever you want, or being free from the things you have done and their consequences?  You can’t have both.  There is not one of us who does not have stupid and even sinful choices in our past.  We are accountable to God, and yet, He is gracious.

Epaphras serves Christ.  What a world this would be if more people would choose to be slaves of Christ.

Paul describes him as always laboring earnestly for the Colossian church in prayer.  The word for laboring earnestly comes from a root that refers to agony.  It pictures someone in a wrestling match exerting power to the extent of pain.  Anyone who has had children can identify with this image.  Epaphras had an intense concern for them and labored for them in prayer.  In light of chapter two of this letter, we can imagine it had to do with a prayer that they would not be deceived by charlatans.

Next, we have some of the general goals of his prayers.  First, he prays that they would stand.  This idea of being set, or fixed, in a place is a reference to their salvation and being set within Christ.  Yet, closely attendant to this desire are the descriptors, complete and fully assured.  It is not enough to join the people of God.  There is a lifetime of tests and trials ahead of us.  One of the ways that the enemy pulls us out of Christ is by tempting us with something we are missing (see Genesis 3).  Paul has made the point in this letter that we have everything we need in Christ.  When spiritual scammers come calling, we need to be careful that we are not hungry for something else.  Thus, we need to be fully assured that we have all that we need in Christ.  This only comes through prayerful relationship with Jesus as we read the Word of God and face life in its light.

He adds the phrase, “in all the will of God.”  The Scriptures lay out all of God’s will for us.  Of course, the Holy Spirit may lead you in specifics, but they will always be within the general will of God laid out for all the saints. 

In verse 13, Paul reiterates the deep concern that Epaphras has for them.  This word is different but also has a root that means pain.  Notice that Paul also mentions the towns of Laodicea and Hierapolis.  Laodicea was west of Colossae about 12 miles.  Hierapolis was north of Laodicea about 5 miles.  It may be that Epaphras had a role in the Gospel going to those towns as well.

Luke & Demas (v. 14)

This is the same Luke that accompanied Paul on many of his journeys.  Just as he is footing the bill for his house-prison so he would be footing the bill for any medical assistance.  From his letters, we see that Paul had issues with maladies on the road.  Luke seems to have sensed the call of the Holy Spirit to assist Paul with his medical expertise.   Of course, he is filled with the Holy Spirit and a capable minister as well.

Luke describes himself as being with Paul during the voyage to Rome under arrest.  It is most likely that he too is a prisoner with Paul.  Or at least, he has been allowed to accompany Paul due to frequent issues.

Paul shortly mentions a man named Demas who sends his greetings along with Luke’s.  Demas is also mentioned in the letter to Philemon in a similar fashion.  There is one other place where Demas is mentioned and that is 2 Timothy 4:10.

Paul tells Timothy that Demas had left him and gone to Thessalonica.  Of course, the ability of people to help out in ministry can have its own seasons.  However, it is the phrase that follows that tells a tragic story.  Demas left Paul “having loved this present world.”  It is not clear if Demas has left the faith.  Yet, it is clear that Paul is describing his leaving as a spiritual problem.

Of course, ask yourself this.  How long would you be able to hang in with Paul before you were ready to hang in the towel?  Demas is doing more than going back home to minister there.  His heart is longing for the things of this present world, and it is drawing him away from ministry.  Perhaps, he feared never having this or missing out on that.  There is nothing wrong with having things in this life.  God made them all to be enjoyed with thanksgiving, but the desire for the things of this world must never come between us and our Lord.  You cannot lean upon the things of this world.  God’s work in you is not dependent upon these things either.  It is not built on finances, wealth, family, connections etc.  Rather, it is built upon Christ who is our everything.

Did Demas apostatize, leave the faith?  We simply do not know the rest of the story.  Let his brief mention be a cautionary tale.

Nympha or Nymphas (v. 15)

Paul now switches to specific people on their end that he wants to greet.  At this point, we have a textual issue about whether Paul is addressing a woman or a man.  Your version of the Bible will be very clear on its translation either way, but there are some issues.  Let’s look at them.

First, the Greeks would change the ending of a name depending on how it was being used in the sentence.  We do not do this in English.  How is this a problem?  The name has a clear male form, Nymphas, and a clear female form, Nympha.  However, this name is not the subject of the sentence but the object.  Paul says, “[implied subject “you”] Greet the brethren who are in Laodicea and also Nympha/Nymphas [one of the objects of the verb “greet”].  Because it is an object, the ending is changed to “Nymphan” in order to make clear how it is functioning in the sentence.  The problem is that both Nympha (f) and Nymphas (m) have the same form when used as an object.  So, the name cannot tell us whether this is a male or female.

This then brings us to the recognition that a pronoun is used following the name, “and the church that is in [is it “her” or is it “his”] house.  Normally, the pronoun would have made it clear.  However, there are some manuscripts that have “her” and some that have “his.”

The manuscripts that have “her” tend to be older manuscripts.  However, there are far fewer of them than those that say “his.”  The challenge is to determine which manuscripts are more reliable, the ones that are older or the ones that are more numerous.

There is another issue.  If this represents a change- perhaps thinking it is in error for some reason, we have to ask which change makes the most sense.  Does it make more sense that the pronoun was originally “his” and was changed to “her?”  Or does it make more sense that the pronoun was originally “her” and was changed to “his?”  Many believe that it is unthinkable that someone would have changed “his” to “her” and believe that it must be the other way around, “her” was changed to “his.”

This represents the difficult world of determining what the original letter said.  The evidence appears to lean towards “her,” but not heavily so.  There is still doubt.  Some of the case for “her” is speculation, even though that speculation may make the most sense.  The problem is this.  We do not know what we do not know.

I take time to go through this so we can see that this debate is not about liberals trying to change the Word of God versus conservatives trying to protect it.  This verse has become one of the go-to passages for those who promote women fulfilling ministry roles in the church.  However, those who reject women in ministry offices will also reject the “her” translation.

Notice that this is a house church within the Laodicean community.  It was very common for churches to meet in someone’s house.  In fact, a city could have multiple house churches depending on the size of the Christian community there.  Nympha/s is clearly a leader in that church.

I believe that this verse is an important part of the debate, but we should not lean upon it too heavily.  Time may bring forth more manuscripts and older ones that will push the needle of certainty one way or the other.  We need to hold this lightly.

Yet, on the matter of women in ministry roles, the New Testament is far from putting women down and keeping them out of ministry.  We have mentioned Priscilla and Aquila in the past.  However, the Gospel is not pushing for women to take over ministry either.  We should stop listening to the world and our society, and we should not let the traditions of men get in the way of the Word of God and the Holy Spirit.

Have you ever been in a church where there was a woman who was powerfully used by the Holy Spirit and the people of the church looked up to her as a leader?  If you haven’t, it is not as rare as you think.

Pentecostal churches had to come to grips with the fact that some women who were filled with the Holy Spirit were used powerfully in ministry.  Many churches were founded by women, whether through preaching or starting Sunday School classes.  Women were powerfully called and used on the mission field.  If you have a default setting that says God cannot use women in that way, then you will miss out on some of what the Holy Spirit is doing.  Yet, we are not to make the mistake of trying to make women leadership happen, as if there must be a 50/50 representation.  This is how the world thinks.  In Christ, we are more concerned with what he thinks.

In 1 Corinthians 4:19, Paul references some teachers who were causing problems in the church.  He says that he will “find out, not the words of those who are arrogant but their power.”  The true measure of the teacher is the presence of the Holy Spirit, not the outward presentation, whether words or gender.  The Church needs the power of the Holy Spirit in this hour more than it needs gender equity or patriarchal headship.  It also needs humility in the face of the hurts of people and the will of a holy God.

Paul’s final words (v. 16-18)

In verse 16, Paul refers to a letter that he has sent to the church in Laodicea.  This letter was most likely delivered by Tychicus and Onesimus on their way to Colossae.  It became common for churches who received letters from apostles to retain them and share them with others in their locality.  These would then be copied so that churches could have their own copy for reference.  This is how the New Testament took form.  Local and regional communities could vouch that these letters were authentically from one of the Apostles.  This can help us understand how churches quickly recognized false writings that would surface purporting to be from one of the apostles, particularly after the period in which they lived.  They could look to the style, the things taught, and whether it had a verifiable history of being written to a church or individual.

Paul also singles out a minister named Archippus.  He tells him to “Take heed to the ministry which you have received in the Lord, that you may fulfill it.”  Take heed is an exhortation to watch and to focus upon a duty.  Archippus is also mentioned in the letter to Philemon so he may have bee a part of the church that met in Philemon’s home.  Paul refers to him as a fellow-soldier in Philemon 1:2.

Either Paul has reason to think that Archippus may be growing weary in ministry, or he may be simply encouraging him to fulfill the ministry in the sense of finishing well.  Both issues are important for our attention.  Doing our duty in ministry and in life is important.  Of course, if you fail, God will not fail the people in the church.  Yet, you will be accountable to him.  Similarly, we all need encouragement in life to “run through the tape,” as runners are told.  The weariness of the race creates an instinctual letting up as you approach the end.  We can also recognize that the ups and downs of ministry itself can create times of growing lax and losing our edge in ministry.  We all need encouragement to pay attention to the ministry that God has given us in the midst of the spiritual battle of life and ministry.

Paul tells them to remember his bonds.  I don’t get the feeling that he is fishing for pity.  Rather, Paul wants them to know that just as he was greatly empowered by the Holy Spirit and yet had great tribulation, so they could expect difficulties as well.  These are not signs that we are on the wrong path.  Rather, they are part of what it takes to follow Jesus who also suffered great persecution, even execution.  In all of these things, Paul has testified that Christ is worthy of any sacrifice.  He wasn’t in Rome without having chosen a path of suffering.  He wasn’t regretting his stand upon Christ, and neither should they.

He ends with the common sign-off, grace be with you!

As we finish, I want to encourage us with a summary of the letter to the Colossians.  I like to memorize at least one thing that is important about each chapter.

In chapter one, we are given a powerful Hymn to the Son of God’s Love.  It is an anthem regarding Jesus, the Exalted Messiah.

In chapter two, we have the influencers who were trying to pull the Colossians away from Jesus.  These were Jews who tried to make Gentiles follow the Laws of Moses, and Gentiles who tried to pull them into philosophies and mystical polytheism.  Paul then follows this up with a powerful tribute to the victory of Jesus over every spiritual power and the completeness of our salvation in him!

Chapter three calls us to do everything we do in the name of the Lord Jesus.  This leads to a series of exhortations that seek to recreate the relationships of the Christian home.  Husbands, wives, children, parents, slaves and masters, are all to use their position for the sake of Jesus and the Gospel.  Jesus is the Lord of all our relationships.

This last chapter reminds us to walk in wisdom towards the outsiders, those who do not know Jesus.  It ends by honoring the relationships that had been formed among those who were working together for the ministry of Jesus.

I pray that this study has encouraged you to put your trust fully in Jesus the Messiah!

Partners II audio

Letter to the Colossian Church- 15

Subtitle: Partners in Ministry I

Colossians 4:7-11.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, November 2, 2025.

Paul has wrapped up his letter and is closing it with greetings from those who were with him in Rome.  Though Paul may seem to be singularly important, he continually testifies of the many people who helped him and encouraged him in ministering for Jesus Christ.

It is important for us to understand that people who minister for Christ, even with great scopes of influence, need partners both to help them and to encourage them.

In some respects, these people are partnering with Paul, but in other respects they are all partnering with Christ and his work. 

To partner with God in any endeavor will generally involve partnering with others.  There is a tension between the way God uses others to help us spiritually and those things that we must face and do for ourselves.  Both issues are important.

We all have a part in the people of Christ and also in the ministry of Christ.  Paul may get the press, but he is not trying to hog it for himself.  So, let’s look at some of the men who helped Paul in spreading the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

Tychicus (v. 7-8)

We do not have a lot of information on Tychicus.  He was with Paul in Rome while Paul was under house arrest.  He is first mentioned in Acts 20:4 during Paul’s third missionary journey. Paul picks up Tychicus as a helper somewhere in the Roman province of Asia (his hometown is never mentioned).  It seems that Paul was continually looking for fellow workers who had a call from the Lord to help in ministry.

Tychicus must have made his way to Rome in order to help Paul during his imprisonment.

Paul used Tychicus several times to communicate with individuals and churches, typically carrying letters from Paul to them.  It is clear that he is delivering this letter to the Colossians.  He is also mentioned in Ephesians 6:21 as the one who delivered that letter.  There is also a mention in Titus that Paul may use Tychicus to deliver that letter.

In all of these cases, Tychicus is not just a mailman.  He is also a brother who can encourage those to whom Paul is writing.

Paul clearly depended upon Tychicus and trusted him.  So, it is no surprise to read Paul’s description of Tychicus as a beloved brother (fellow believer in Jesus) and a faithful servant.  Calling one another “brothers” was an endearment that recognized the family of God that believers were.  His faithfulness as a servant was not just to Paul.  His servanthood was ultimately to Christ.  However, when you serve Christ, you will find yourself serving people.

Paul also calls him a fellow bondservant.  This is a different word that the previous “servant.”  A bondservant was a person who had no will or agency except that of their master.  We know that Paul is a freeman, so this is not about him being an actual slave.  Rather, he is a slave of Christ along with Paul, “a bondservant in the Lord.”

Tychicus would not only deliver the letter, but he would also inform them about Paul’s situation and condition.  Paul is doing well, and God is helping him.  Tychicus could encourage their hearts about Paul’s predicament and the advance of the Kingdom of Christ in the face of Roman imprisonment.

Sometimes we can be more concerned about people than they are for themselves, and that is okay.  The key is communication and prayer for one another.

Onesimus (v. 9)

Onesimus has travelled with Tychicus and was himself from Colossae.  Paul describes him similarly to how he described Tychicus.  He is a faithful and beloved brother.

This is the same Onesimus as that in the letter of Philemon.  It is generally thought that this personal letter to Philemon was sent at the same time.  At some point, Philemon must have made his personal letter to be public. 

Onesimus was Philemon’s bondslave.  He had run away and somehow ended up in Rome.  It is clear that though Philemon was a Christian, Onesimus was not.  Onesimus became a Christian, probably through interaction with Paul.  Paul then sent Onesimus back to Philemon, his master.  In that letter, Paul encouraged Philemon to accept Onesimus as a brother in the Lord.  He even stated that he would cover all that Philemon had cost him in running away.

This idea of not kicking against your station in life, i.e., being a slave, but using it for Christ, is puzzling to the modern age.  It is part of the call to let your relationships be transformed by Christ.  It may be that a slave was Christian and a master wasn’t.  The slave would be encouraged to serve their master as if serving the Lord.  It was also possible that a master would be Christian while a slave was not (as in the case of Philemon).  The master would be encouraged to treat the slave fairly as we saw earlier in this letter, remembering that they have a heavenly master to whom they will give account.  When both are Christians, they would both be challenged to serve to honor Christ in their commitments to one another.

By the way, it is interesting that Paul does not use the language of servant and slave with Onesimus like he did with Tychicus.  He could have, but in this case, he emphasizes that he is a fellow brother.

Aristarchus (v. 10)

At this point, Paul sends greetings from those who remained with him in Rome.

We first hear about Aristarchus in Acts 19 where Paul is in Ephesus during the third missionary journey.  Demetrius the silversmith had stirred up a mob.  They couldn’t find Paul, so they seized Gaius and Aristarchus.  They brought them before the magistrates.  They were eventually freed, but we see that Aristarchus has faced difficulty for the cause of Christ.

He is from Thessalonica, the capital city of Macedonia.

Paul tells us that Aristarchus is imprisoned with him.  It is unclear if he was arrested as a co-conspirator with Paul or if he simply volunteered to be arrested with him in order to help Paul in this time.  It is fairly clear that he accompanied Paul to Jerusalem where he was arrested and then put on a ship for Rome.

Aristarchus is another faithful man serving the kingdom of Christ in spite of adversity.

Mark (v. 10)

Paul sends greetings for Mark who is not mentioned as being a prisoner too.  This is the cousin of Barnabas who is no doubt also the young man they took on their first missionary journey.

In Acts 13, we are told that John called Mark left them and returned to Jerusalem.  There was no reason presented at the time.  However, in Acts 15 as Paul and Barnabas prepare to leave on a second missionary journey, there is a dispute about letting Mark join them.  This dispute becomes so sharp that Paul and Barnabas decide to part ways. 

Paul clearly believes that Mark is not someone who can be trusted.  This makes it clear that Mark had abandoned them earlier.  Barnabas wants to help Mark grow in working for the Lord without fear. 

This passage becomes one of the places where we see that Mark went on to prove himself to the apostle Paul.  They made amends, and Paul depends upon Mark without reserve.  2 Timothy 4:11 is another place where Paul asks for Timothy to bring Mark with him who is “useful to me for service.”

Was Paul too hard or was Barnabas too soft?  I am not sure that we should try to solve that.  There are good reasons why both took the stand that they did.  However, God’s purpose can be found even in our disagreements.  Our conflicts and reconciliations are part of not knowing everything.  Perhaps, God was using that disagreement to create two missionary teams.  

Regardless, we see Paul sending word that Mark is to be welcomed (as a faithful brother) because they would know of his prior reserves about Mark.  They are to welcome him.

It is important for believers to leave room for reconciliation down the road when there are disagreements and conflicts.

Jesus who is called Justus (v. 11)

Paul sends greetings from a man named Jesus who is also called Justus.  Of course, this isn’t Jesus the Christ, but a man who had the same name.  Perhaps, this is why he went by Justus.

We know nothing else about Justus.  However, Paul describes him, Mark and Aristarchus as fellow workers for the Kingdom of God who are of the circumcision.  This is not a reference to the Jewish Christians who were teaching that Gentiles had to be circumcised to follow Jesus.  He does use the term that way in certain letters.  In this case, Paul is using the word to refer to the Jews as a whole.  They saw themselves as the circumcised as opposed to the Gentiles who were not circumcised.

There were no doubt other Jewish Christians in Rome, but these three were the only ones who came alongside of him and helped him in the ministry.

This brings up a side issue regarding the apostle Peter.  Roman Catholics have presented through the years that Peter went to Rome as early as the 40s and was the Bishop of Rome, setting up the Church there.  They then extrapolate that Peter passed his authority on to the next bishop of Rome and so one, creating a long line of succession of the apostolic succession.  This is the foundation of their argument for the primacy of the Bishop of Rome, or the papacy.

Those who reject papal authority, or primacy, sometimes try to prove that Peter was never in Rome until his execution under Nero.  This passage begs the question of whether or not Peter was in Rome.  If he was, he would be a fellow Jew working for the Kingdom of God.  They believe that it is logical to infer from Paul’s statement that Peter could not have been in Rome.

It is possible that this is true, but I believe it is making Paul’s words say too much.  Paul calls them “fellow workers.”  Peter and Paul both had powerful ministries that did not intersect very often.  They are both working for Christ, but it is possible that Paul is using “fellow worker” in a narrower sense.  Paul may only mean those who are actively helping him with what he is doing.  Peter would be doing what the Lord is leading him to do separate to Paul.

I am not persuaded either way.  I think this is a weak verse to use for both ideas.  I would say this.  There are no passages that give any implication that Peter was the head Apostle of the Church and that all of the other Apostles gave him first place.  There is also no idea that Peter would pass down such an authority before his death.  In fact, this would be a line of argumentation that would have worked for Caiaphas.  Christian heritage does not guarantee that one will have the calling of their grandparents, and a Christian office does not guarantee that one will have the same spiritual authority as previous officers.

We will have some more people to introduce next week.  Yet, let’s see these as those who have proved to be an encouragement to Paul (vs. 11).  They are not just helpers in the ministry.  Paul needed encouragement.  I am sure that the Spirit of Christ encouraged him internally.  However, Jesus also used faithful brothers to be an encouragement to Paul.  Whenever you see someone who is being used greatly in ministry, never forget this simple truth.  They need people to minister to them too!

God help us to work together for the sake of the Kingdom of Christ, the Son of God’s love!

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Letter to the Colossian Church- 14

Subtitle: Final Instructions

Colossians 4:2-6.  This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on Sunday, October 26, 2025.

As we near the end of this letter, Paul returns to general instructions that all Christians need to follow.  In our relationships, the distinctions of this world do not matter, male with female, wife with husband, parent with child, and slave with master.  However, we grow up in a world that inundates us with the idea that they are very important.  So, what does matter? 

We find this answer particularly in Galatians 5:6 and 6:15. The only thing that matters is “faith expressing itself through love,” and “being a new creation [i.e., like Christ].”  These are two ways of saying the same thing.  God is love; Christ is love.  When we take on his image by faith, His love flows through us.  This is an expression of God’s new creative work within us.  We are part of His new creation.

The devil and the world know that these differences bother people.  These differences are often the leverage they need to manipulate us for their ends, for political capital, etc.  This divide-and-conquer method is the most effective way to subjugate us. 

It is easy to think that this modern age is the apex of wisdom.  We are far too sophisticated to fall for such tactics.  However, the truth is this.  Humans have not changed over the last 2,000 years.  The United States of America is not the apex of wisdom; Jesus is!  If we do not listen to him and the apostles that he sent, we are only walking the same foolish path of others before us, no matter how great we are.

Thus, the Lord is telling us through the apostles that our rights and our experience are not the most important things in life.  We are not to focus on what our rights are, but rather on how we can use our abilities for the purposes of Christ.

As the Son of God, Jesus had rights and privileges, but he laid them down in order to serve God the Father, and in so doing, serve us.

Let’s look at our passage.

Be a person who prays (v. 2-4)

At the beginning of this letter, Paul described how he and his fellow workers had been praying for them. In Colossians 1:3, he says that they were “praying always for you…,” and in verse 9 of that chapter, he says, “we have not ceased to pray for you…”

So, here in chapter 4 verse 2, he is not instructing them to pray, as if they were not doing this, but rather, he is calling them to follow his example, which is ultimately to follow the example of our Lord Jesus Christ. 

We cannot follow Christ without prayer.  Yes, prayer for ourselves, but also prayer for one another.  This is fundamental to what it means to be a Christian.  If you haven’t been a person of prayer, then this is something that He is calling to do.  Prayer is not a mechanism for getting what we want.  It is a growing relationship with our Heavenly Father.

Paul uses the word “devote.”  This word has the idea of persevering in an endeavor, in this case prayer.  Devoting yourself to something involves time, energy, and desire.  It is not so much about desiring to do a religious work, but about desiring to talk with God about our life.

This is why we hear people in the Church talking about devotions or doing your devotions.  It generally means setting aside an amount of time each day to read the Word, pray, and worship God.  Of course, we do not want this to become a religious exercise alone.  We should want quality as much as quantity.  The best course is to make sure that you are doing some amount of time while also praying that God would help you to grow in a quality of devotion.  If you have been barely praying, don’t try to pray 2 hours a day.  This will not endure because there is no relational foundation to it.  The Bible doesn’t give us a number of minutes or hour.  Rather, it calls us to prayer.

Many people who begin reading the Word and praying will only go so long and then they quit.  Why do they quit?  Sometimes it is because it doesn’t feel like God is listening.  Of course, how would we know if God was listening or not?  Our feelings are just that, our feelings.  Sometimes people come to this conclusion because they prayed for God to do something that never happened.  Of course, we forget quickly that our earthly parents often didn’t do what we wanted them to do.

Our desire in prayer must be much deeper than trying to get something out of God.  Rather, we need to be giving Him our intimate self.  He is our source of wisdom, strength, and direction.  Without Him, we will be unfruitful in making an eternal effect upon this world. So, hear the Holy Spirit calling you to pray.  Devote yourself to it. 

Paul then speaks of being watchful in your prayers.  Keeping alert, being watchful, comes from the same word that Jesus used in the garden of Gethsemane when he asked his disciples to “watch and pray” with him.

In some respects, we are watching over our own soul when we pray.  We share with God what we are seeing in our heart and mind, while asking Him to help us to see more and better.  We pray about the things that threaten to make us stumble.  We pay attention to how the enemy is attacking us now but also praying for wisdom regarding his plans ahead.  We seek to hear from the Holy Spirit regarding those things in our life that need to be removed (sin) or added (like prayer).

In all of this, we should be watchful for what is happening to the other believers connected to us.  We are to be brothers and sisters spiritually watching one another’s back.

It is amazing how many things will come to you while you pray.  The act of praying over our life opens the door for the Holy Spirit to lead us further.  This is connected to the sense of being a vigilant watchman.  The enemy will continue to attack, but those who pray will be alerted to the threats and will alert others.

Paul then emphasizes that we should do this with an attitude of thanksgiving.  Prayer can easily wear a person down, especially when they are only focused on getting something from God.  Prayer is even more about God receiving what He deserves.  When we serve Him and enter into a real relationship with Him, it makes a fruitfulness in our life that is greater than any “bad” experiences we may have.

Don’t focus on what you are not getting or on what is not happening.  Instead, you should have an atmosphere of thanksgiving in all of your prayers.  I try to thank God every time I ask Him for something.  “God, please give me wisdom in this situation.  I thank you for all the wisdom that you have poured into my life through the Word, through mature believers, and by Your Holy Spirit.  So, I ask knowing that you know what I need to know.”  Pray in such a way that you are grateful to even be able to ask in prayer.

The person who isn’t thankful will say that it is because they don’t have anything, or much, for which to be thankful.  However, the person who stops and gives thanks for even the smallest of things will come to discover just how many ways God has blessed them.

In verse three, Paul then asks them to pray for him and his missionary associates.  Of course, Paul is currently under house arrest in Rome.  But that doesn’t have to stop the spreading of the Gospel.  This letter exemplifies God’s desire that we all be praying for one another, rather than each one for himself.  If we all pray for one another, then we go from only having one person pray for us (me) to having a bunch of people praying for us. Such prayer should flow from a heart of love, but in the end, it will increase our love for others.  This is cyclical but can be jumpstarted by simply being faithful in prayer.  Just make your first prayer about asking God for a heart of love.  “O God, help me to love as You love.”

Let’s take note of the kinds of things that Paul asks them to pray.

Pray that God will open a door for the Word.  Sometimes people and places are unwilling to give the Gospel of Jesus a hearing.  The idea of a door that God has opened is picturing those moments of opportunity that arise in life.  We saw this in the Book of Acts when Paul and his group kept hearing the Holy Spirit telling them not to go into certain areas.  It is God who should lead us.  Our work should dovetail with His prior and current work of preparing hearts.  In fact, “our” work should be infused with His Spirit and His Help.  Thus, our work is really His work too. 

Sometimes God will tell us in prayer that a door is opened or closed for sharing the Gospel.  This is an internal mechanism.  However, other times, the closed door presents itself rather forcefully, and yet, simultaneously other doors spring open to our surprise.  A praying person can trust God to lead them in both ways as He chooses.  While Paul was in prison, he could have given up, but he is praying for open doors instead of getting out of prison.  He wants to share Christ wherever God makes that possible.

We should also pray that we will be able to speak the Mystery of Christ to others.  This mystery is now only mysterious to those who haven’t had it explained to them.  The amazing person of the Messiah was not just to save Israel, but also all of the Gentiles who would respond to the offer of salvation through him.

Sometimes open doors look like going to prison.  They don’t make sense to us, but God uses them for His greater purpose.

This request for prayer is the backdrop to the description of Paul’s imprisonment in Acts 28. Paul was allowed to have visitors, even large numbers.  For two years, he was able to encourage the Christians of Rome, preach to the Jews who didn’t know Jesus and also to Gentiles who didn’t know the plan of God to save the world.  All of this was done in the city that was the seat of the devil’s beast kingdom.  I would say their prayers were being answered.

Finally, Paul asks them to pray that he would have the ability to make the Gospel clear (as he ought to do).  We should never take it for granted that we are being clear.  People come from very diverse backgrounds.  We really do need the help of the Holy Spirit to lead us in clarifying the Gospel.  Clarity isn’t the only obstacle to the Gospel, but at least if we are clear, their choice will be clear.

Be careful how you live towards unbelievers (v. 5-6)

Paul now moves from their prayers, whether personal or for others, to how they live among the believers of Colossae.  We need to take care how we are living around everyone.  However, we need to take special care around unbelievers because God wants them to come to know Him.

He uses a term that is best translated as “outsiders.”  It is a term that is used often to refer to something being outside of another thing.  Several times Paul uses it of those who are not Christians (1 Corinthians 5:12f, 1 Thessalonians 4:12).  They are not just outside of a local church.  They are outside of Christ.  They are not believers in Him.

This concept of believing in Christ and then being in him has been emphasized in this letter.  Chapter 2 verse 6 reminds them, “as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him.”  The phrase “in Him” is given again in verses 7, 10, and 11.  The outsiders are those who have not put their faith in Jesus and joined the community of believers.  They are outside of the grace of God.

People can be outsiders for very different reasons.  Most are outsiders because they are ignorant of the truth of God and His Messiah.  However, it can also be a willful rejection of the Gospel.  It may be a mixture of both.  The main point is that God is in the business of making outsiders to be insiders.  No one was made to be outside of His grace and love.  However, He will force no one to be in His grace and love.

We are then told to walk in wisdom towards these outsiders.  “Walk” here is a metaphor for how we live our life.  It also pictures intentionality as we walk towards them.  God wants our lives to intersect with outsiders.  If we let His wisdom lead us, we can be a good witness to them.  Part of the wisdom is simply knowing that God wants your life to speak to them of Christ.  Yet, we should pray for specific wisdom regarding specific people.

Of course, we fall short of displaying and living out the wisdom of Christ.  We must be honest when we fall short.  Jesus is saving sinners, and that includes us.

The flip side of this is for Christians to live foolishly around outsiders.  This would involve not obeying Christ, saying one thing and doing another, or trying to be like the outsiders.  Wisdom would tell us that they need saving, and yet, we can also be drawn away from Christ by them.  We must be wise in our conduct.

Paul then tells them to make the most of every opportunity.  Some versions say, “redeem the time.”  It can simply mean to make the most of every opportunity that God gives us with others.  Yet, it literally says, “redeeming the season.”  Time is contemplated here in regard to the season we are in rather than pure chronology or amount of time.  Now is the season for harvest.  It is a season of God offering grace to His enemies.  It is the season of the righteous laying their lives down so that others may hear the Gospel and be saved. 

We should also recognize that, within this great season of grace, various areas have a season, as well as individuals.

We are not just making the most of a particular opportunity, though that is important.  Until Jesus comes back, we have the great opportunity of working with the Holy Spirit in order to bring people into the Kingdom of the Son of God’s love.  Eventually the night will come, and there will be no more time to shine the light of Christ to them.  Intentionality towards the things of God is what helps us make the most of the time that God has given to us.

Paul then tells us to always speak with grace.  Of course, he doesn’t say to speak with grace if they are gracious to you first.  No, our life is to be marked by the grace of Jesus.

Grace here is not so much a theological topic that we are sharing, but rather, a way in which we speak with others.  We are to speak graciously.  The idea behind grace is that of a gift that should bring joy to the receiver.  The Gospel really is good news.  We should share it with grace, or with a gracious spirit.  We see this in the life of Jesus.  Of course, there were times of sparks when his grace was thrown back into his face by those who should have known better.  But even then, Jesus did not let these offenses embitter his spirit.  He was the grace of God to them.

Paul pictures this as seasoning a meal with salt.  Sharing the Gospel is like sharing a meal.  We can do so in a bland, flavorless way.  Jesus spoke of this in Matthew 5:13. “You are the salt of the earth, but if the salt has lost its flavor, how can it be made salty again?”  He then speaks of it being thrown outside and trampled under the feet of men.  It takes the help of the Holy Spirit to speak with grace.  This gives people the greatest chance possible to embrace Jesus.

Paul may also be thinking of the Old Testament sacrifices.  All sacrifices in the Old Testament were to be salted.  As we sacrifice our lives for God’s purposes, we need salt, flavor, a zest for them, which comes across when we are gracious to others.

Earlier, Paul had asked them to pray for him to be clear as he ought.  Here, he turns that to them.  If they walk wisely towards outsiders, speaking with grace towards them, then the Holy Spirit will help them to know how to speak.  Even more, He will help them to know what to speak.

We can feel impotent in reaching others for Christ.  Yet, the answer is not in shrinking back from the duty.  “I’m no good; I might as well sit down and let others do it.”  The answer lies in exercising wisdom.  Through prayer, we go back to God who has called us.  We ought to take care of how we live and what we say.  “Does it honor Christ and His purposes?”  We should also have the right attitude.  It is God’s desire to draw people to Christ through us.

We should not take things personally and react from the flesh.  God is even working through the offenses that people make towards us.  Jesus is worthy of anything we may need to suffer because He has suffered for us all, even the outsider.

When the enemy stirs someone up to be an enemy towards us, we need to remind ourselves that God saw this coming.  Perhaps, He has them right where He wants them, just as He has you right where He wants you.  Don’t let anger and a desire for justice turn off the grace of God in the lives of those who are lost.

Final Instructions