Colossians 3:12-17. This sermon was preached by Pastor Marty Bonner on July 15, 2018.
Seeking the things that are above is a phrase that is used to change our perspective on how we live our life. We can either live with our heart and mind, which is naturally fixated on the earth, leading us, or we can live with our heart and mind, turned towards heaven and the leadership of Christ. Our flesh will lead us to destruction, but the leadership of Jesus will lead us to eternal life.
Thus, Christians need to be followers of Jesus in deed and not just in word. To truly follow someone involves watching what direction they choose and making corrections accordingly. Similarly, to be a disciple of Jesus, we must do more than just show up for His lessons. We must actually take time to study the lessons that He teaches and then put them into practice in our lives. In that way we will truly become more like Him over the course of time.
In our passage today, we will see the why, what, and how of doing this. This passage will not answer every question that you may have. However, it will encourage you to be a person who is seeking the things that are above rather than a person who is pursuing the things of this world.
In verses 8-10, Paul has introduced the metaphor of taking off our old man, like you would a set of clothing, and then putting on the new man. In this metaphor the old man represents my life as led by my own fleshly heart and mind. The new man is Jesus, and by faith Christians are those who are taking off the old way of life and putting on the new way of life that is directed by Jesus. Now, this is not intended just to be a nice platitude, but a template for our daily transformation. This is something we must wake up every day and pray, “Lord, show me where I need to put off the old man today, and strengthen me to put on the new that you have for me.”
Thus verse 12 quickly explains why we should give ourselves to such a task. The first is that we have been chosen by God. God chose us for the purpose of becoming like Jesus. He did not choose us just to warm a pew on Sunday mornings. Also, this choosing was not based upon the fact that we were better than others around us, but simply because we humbled ourselves, and turned from the wisdom of this world and turned towards Jesus, the wisdom of God. If I refuse to take off the old man and put on the new man, then I am rejecting the purpose for which God chose me. In fact, I am ultimately rejecting His choice, period.
The second reason he gives for putting on the new man is because we are holy. We are not holy because we got our act together better than those who are not. We are holy because when we were chosen by God, He also set us apart for His holy purposes. Those purposes do include taking the good news about Jesus and His salvation to all people, even to the ends of the earth. However, we cannot preach salvation if it is not happening in our daily life. Salvation is more than a legal standing before God. It is also something that God does in our life every day as we listen to Him and find deliverance from our old man. The foundation of the Gospel is God’s ability to take the worst of sinners and enable them to become like Jesus, the sinless one. It is Jesus who purchased us with His blood on the cross, and He did so in order that we would become like Him. When we are like Him then we can produce deliverance throughout the earth. However, to use our life for worldly and selfish purposes would be to profane (use a holy thing for common purposes) what God has made holy.
The third reason he points out for putting on the new man is because we are loved by God. When you have the love of the Creator, then nothing else matters. It doesn’t matter when the world rejects me because God loves me. It doesn’t matter if I am lacking in the things of this world. In Christ I have everything I need. He is the one who takes care of my needs. Thus there are two loves that we must choose between. We can remain in the love of God and pursue His purposes, or we can remain in love with the world and go after the purposes of our own flesh. We cannot love both because they are diametrically opposed to one another. I can’t love the ways of the world and the desires of my own flesh, and still love God. I will go towards one and away from the other. When we turn towards God in reciprocal love, then He teaches us how to love the world properly. The proper way to love the world is to lay down your life that they might live, rather than plunging headlong with them into destruction. May we love God enough that our hearts are changed regarding the world. Then we will love people enough to call them back from the edge of destruction.
So what does it look like to put on the new man? In the second part of verse 12 through verse 14, Paul lists many things that show us what this looks like. He does so not because we need a checklist to accomplish, but because of the deceptions that Christians encountered then and of course also today. There is one Lord, Jesus, and we are called to one life, putting Him on. There are no such things as Christians who are at such a high level that it is now okay for them to do things that the Bible tells us are sin. Jesus is the same yesterday, today, and forever. These are listed to guard against error.
The first thing he tells us to put on is tender mercies, also translated compassionate hearts. This parallels Micah 6:8 where we are told to love mercy enough to live it out in our daily lives. Thus Christians are told to choose the tenderness of God over the hardness of the world.
The next word is kindness. Kindness goes beyond doing the right thing. It involves going beyond. Jesus helped people, but more than that he did so in a kind manner. We see such tenderness in John 4 as He talks with the woman at the well.
Next we are told to put on humility. Humility is the disposition of the mind in which we do not see ourselves as superior or above others. Christ is above us all and asks us to position ourselves beneath each other, so that we can serve one another in His name. Of course, this is exactly what He did when He yielded to the cross. Though He is God, He embraced the lowest place. How much more ought we to do so?
Next we are to put on meekness. This word is often defined as strength under control. Its emphasis is gentleness and being mild-mannered, not because you lack strength, but because the Spirit of God enables you to control yourself. A meek person is not pushing themselves and their agenda, but leaving room for others and what Christ is doing through them.
Patience in this passage is having a long fuse with others. It is easy to be short-tempered and easily aroused to anger. However, Christ is patient and slow to anger.
We are told to bear with one another. We would probably call it putting up with one another. Yes, it is not always easy to put up with YOU, just as it is not always easy to put up with ME! This has more to do with the personality differences and disagreements we may have. Christ puts up with our pettiness and slowness to follow Him, and He does so because He loves us. Our flesh is too quick to write others off and refuse to deal with them. This is not the heart of God.
Then we are told to forgive one another. Here we get to the parts where may do each other wrong in one way or another. The heart of God wants to forgive us for our sins and works towards reconciliation. Thus, those who follow Jesus must also be a forgiving people. This is one of the hardest things for our flesh to swallow. Forgiveness is not saying, “It’s OK.” Rather, it is saying, “I am not going to hold this against you. It is now between you and God.” If a person is repentant and wants reconciliation, then we embrace them as Jesus embraced Peter on the shores of the Sea of Galilee in John 21.
Lastly, Paul tells us, “above all these things put on love.” One way to view these different virtues is to see them as different facets of what it means to love Christ and to love others. When you love someone you have a tender heart towards them, are kind to them, and humble around them, etc. When we live out the love of Christ in our life it perfectly binds us to one another. Genealogy, blood, race, nationality, and any other thing cannot perfectly bind people to one another, but the love of Christ can. Such love cannot be commanded or forced by any human being. But, every one of us is led by the Spirit of Christ to let the love of Christ be expressed in our life.
So how can we live in such an incredible way? Verse 15 transitions to answering this question. Putting on Christ is a daunting task and an extremely high bar. How can God expect us to do it? Paul points us back to Christ as our hope of accomplishing such a task.
The phrase, “let the peace of Christ rule in your heart,” has two parts to it. First we must let it. Those who put their faith in Christ are the recipients of His peace. This is given to us by the work of the Holy Spirit in our heart. The picture I would use for this situation is when the disciples were with Jesus in a boat on the Sea of Galilee (Mark 4:39). The sea represents our heart and all the emotions, desires, and thoughts that can stir up such an internal tempest that we fear for our lives. Letting Jesus bring His peace into our hearts involves having Jesus in our “boat” in the first place. But, more than that, we must call out to Jesus and ask Him to quell our inner storms. When we call on Jesus, He says the words, “Peace, be still!” Once Jesus calms those fears, emotions and desires, we then must let it rule in our hearts. The word “rule” means the peace that Christ has brought to us is now calling the shots about what we will think, desire, and feel. When you let Jesus lead in your life, you are enabled to have an inner peace that directs you without turbulence and chaos. Clearly, this is something we must do each day. Our hearts tend towards chaos, but letting Jesus rule in our hearts brings peace. You don’t do this by yourself and all in one day. You simply need to let the peace of Christ take up residence in your heart and let Him be your King. “What are we working on today, Lord?”
Next, we are told to be thankful. Learning to be thankful in each moment is a difficult thing. Without the assurance that Christ is with us, it would be an impossible thing. Thankfulness begins with contentment. When we are content with what God has provided in our life and the station of life in which we have found ourselves, it transforms how we approach others. Thankfulness needs to become the atmosphere of our daily life. Each morning, rise up and thank God for the day, but not because it is an opportunity to get more. Do so simply because it is another day to be faithful in those good things that the Lord has given you. Instead of looking to the hills for something better, ask the Lord how you might care for what He has already given you. When you are faithful with the “little” that He has given you, then perhaps you will find that those little things are far greater than you imagined. It seems impossible to be able to choose to be thankful. It involves getting our eyes off of what you don’t have here on earth, and looking towards what you do have there in heaven. God, help me to see what I have already. Lord, help me to want to please you, in order that I might be more like you!
Lastly, we are told to let the Word of Christ dwell in us richly. Notice that we are to “let” it happen. God is working to put His Word in us and to have it richly bless our inner life. This definitely involves reading the Bible, and spending some time in studying it yourself and with others. However, Jesus is also called the Word. Thus it is both, the commands that He gives us and He Himself. Like the glory of God coming upon the tabernacle or the temple of Israel, so we should want the Holy Spirit dwelling in us. We must not only memorize the word of God, but also have the Spirit who spoke it working inside of us that it might be fruitful. This process of letting the Word of Christ dwell in us richly is expressed in several ways. We are told to teach and admonish one another, in the ways of Christ. Also we are to sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs (alone and with others). God’s people are intended to be a singing people. We sing not because our voices are so good, but because we have something worth singing about, Jesus! Our hearts are full of the grace of God, and He is pleased to hear the sound of our hearts as we sing about it.
Paul ends this passage with a powerful statement. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him! We are representatives of Christ in this world. How well do I represent Jesus? To some degree, we all fall short. However, that is why we are told to bear with one another and forgive each other. Jesus knows that we will have bumps and scrapes along the way, but He promises to dwell within us and enable us from the inside out. The path forward is not an easy path, but it is a good one in which God will give us all the resources we need to put on the New Man and become like Jesus. He will help us to be His spiritual children, amen!