Ephesians 4:1-6 & Matthew 22:1-14. This sermon was delivered by Pastor Marty Bonner on May 7, 2017.
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Over the last two weeks we have been talking about the wisdom of this world versus the wisdom of God. This ended last week with the Apostle James stating that those who are truly wise should prove it by their good conduct done in meekness. Today we are going to pick up on this concept that the wisdom of God leads to a life of good conduct done in meekness. These are not the words that Paul uses in Ephesians 4. However, it will become obvious that he has the same idea in mind. What James calls “pure and undefiled” religion (James 1:27), the Apostle Paul calls “to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called.”
It is easy to point to religion as the problem. But the Bible does not just offer religion. It offers a pure and undefiled religion that is worthy of the calling to which God has called us. Some make a better distinction by pointing to extremists within religion. They are the true problem. Sure, extremists can cause problems. But it fails to recognize that even a moderate religion that is untrue is harmful to an individual and the world. The real problem is our refusal to let God cleanse our understandings of the world around us. In a sense, it is our refusal to be broken out of the virtual reality that the Powers of this Age have immersed us in. People who follow Jesus are not the problem. Rather, it is people who pretend that they are following Jesus, or at the least, who follow a pale shadow of the true Jesus and his teachings. Let’s look at our passage.
Verse 1, of Ephesians 4, begins with Paul calling himself a “prisoner of the Lord.” The main point for this distinction is to remind the Ephesians and us who is really in charge. Paul had been arrested in Jerusalem and then he had appealed to Caesar. This led to him being in Rome under house arrest. It would be easy in such a situation for Paul to be so focused on Rome and its antagonism towards God’s call upon his life that he would lose sight of God’s sovereignty. Paul wrote at least 4 New Testament letters during this time of arrest and most likely wrote many other letters that we do not have. He is a prisoner of man, but also a prisoner in the Lord. God had a plan through this and Paul trusted Him. So what is this call that Paul is talking about in verse 1?
Ultimately the call is God crying out to mankind, “Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28). The call is the gracious offer of God to save us from the effects of our sin, both corporate and individual. We are saved by grace because there is no other salvation possible, but by God, and He is not obligated to do so. Even if we felt God had a moral obligation to try and save mankind, we have taken his grace for granted over and over again, often throwing it back in His face. Yet, God graciously continues to offer salvation to the world. We are saved through faith because we must believe in God and follow His directions. It is called the Gospel of Jesus because He is the one who not only explains the plan of salvation, but also accomplishes the salvation. The good news is that our savior has come and our salvation has been obtained.
Paul describes this calling in verses 11-15 of this chapter. Notice how he points to the purpose behind all that God is doing in the Church, those who have responded to His call. The whole purpose is to help us become fully like Jesus. As an individual the arrow of your heart needs to be towards Jesus. However, this is not done in our own strength. It is the Spirit of God who supplies people that He has gifted to teach. It is the Spirit of God who has supplied us with a written account of His words, the Bible. And, it is the Spirit of God that supplies an inner witness to our hearts of what Jesus desires of us.
This call is to anyone who will listen. It is not limited by any race, geography, or economic status. John 3:16 demonstrates that God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes on Him should not perish, but have everlasting life. The call is to “whoever” would believe it. Christians are called to take the good news about Jesus and His salvation to the ends of the earth. 2 Peter 3:9 makes the desire of God even clearer. “The Lord is not slow concerning His promise, as some count slowness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” He does not want anyone to perish and is gives a mission to those who answer His call: Be my ambassador to extend this call to the ends of the earth.
So what exactly is meant by walking worthy of our calling, which is to be made over in the image of Jesus Christ? Verse 2 lists several character issues, and from other passages we know that this, by no means, is exhaustive. Basically Paul is telling us that character matters. He starts with “lowliness.” It is a reference to our mindset. It is a person who does not think of themselves as higher than others. It is interesting to think that Jesus, who is Lord of the heavens and the earth, was lowly of mind. This is highlighted in Philippians 2:5 and following. To walk worthy of our calling is to walk with humility before God and others. The next word is “gentleness.” This word is sometimes translated meekness and refers to an inner disposition and calmness of spirit. They are not just gentle on the outside, but on the inside as well. Next is “longsuffering.” This term regarding patience is about not quickly losing your temper, which flows into the next phrase, “bearing one another.” Instead of losing our temper, we have a long fuse, and carry along the heavy things about each other. It is not just about helping other people, but also putting up with their opinions and actions. Any group that is going to stay connected has to learn to carry the imperfections of each other. All of this is to be done “in love.” Now Paul is not saying that a worthy walk is a perfect walk. He is not a perfect man telling the Church to be more perfect. Rather, it is about Christians helping each other to be perfected by the Holy Spirit. Church is not a place of perfect people, but a place of people being perfected. In fact, the same could be said about this life. Quit seeking the perfect life and understand that life itself is perfecting you. It is easy to be so worried about someone else judging us, that we forget we will be judged by God. Don’t be deceived, God is saving you so that you can change and become like Jesus in character and action. If you say you are answering that call then show it by living in a manner that agrees with your words.
Paul also brings up the issue of unity in verse 3. This has become a buzz word over the course of the 20th century. Yet, notice that it is a “unity of the Spirit.” Unity is not something that leaders and Christians can engineer, or make happen. The world and worldly churches turn to forceful mechanisms in order to “make peace.” However, this is not a true peace. To say, “There will be unity when you agree with us,” is not what Paul has in mind. True, Jesus and His Apostles laid down, once and for all, the Faith that all believers should embrace. However, the key to unity is when everyone in a church is looking to the Holy Spirit and walking in harmony with Him (i.e. walking worthy of our calling.) Unity is something with demonstrates the level to which we are all walking in harmony with God’s Spirit. Any other form is the wisdom of this world and not the wisdom of God. Paul goes on for the rest of this section to emphasize that there is one Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and that we have received one baptism, faith, and hope. When we have a living connection with the Spirit of God, He creates unity, but not uniformity. God’ signature is diversity within unity. This is why the world can never have true peace and true unity. They have embraced the wisdom of the Powers of this Age and not the wisdom of God. They refuse the wisdom of Jesus and continue to create their own wisdom. Such wisdom is fractured at its source and doomed to failure by its rejection of the Creator.
Paul does not mention the issue of being chosen by God. But I believe it is critical to discuss at this juncture. Throughout the Scripture we see the dual concepts of God’s call and God’s choosing, or election. So let’s look at a parable that Jesus tells in Matthew 22:1-14 to explore what it means to be “called” versus “chosen.”
In this passage there is a call or invitation that is being sent out and there are also several categories of “unworthy” people. Let’s first understand that Jesus is describing God’s call (as the King) for people to apart of His Kingdom celebration of the wedding of his Son (i.e. The people of God receiving Christ and coming into relationship with Him). The servants who bear the message are the prophets of God who have been faithful throughout history to declare God’s call to the world. The first category of “unworthy” people is those who didn’t think the invitation worth a response. They simply didn’t respond and are apathetic to the call. The next group is mixed, but they have one thing in common. They are all caustic towards the call, to some degree. If the first group is neutral, this group is negative. Some merely ridicule the call and make light of it. Others actively abuse the messengers, and still others actually kill some of the messengers. Clearly this is a response that is unworthy of benefiting from the call of God. The last group is pictured by the individual who actually comes to the wedding. He accepts the invitation, but refuses to comply with the conditions and stipulations of the King. It was common in those days for a King to supply mandatory garments for state functions like this. Thus the parable implies that the man came to the event, but refused to put on the wedding garments. He did not care for the King’s wishes, but rather only cared about what he wanted. He liked his garments better than those supplied by the King. This is important because Paul uses this concept of putting off and putting on clothing as a metaphor for righteous works. Christians are called to put off the dead works of our self-righteousness and put on the living works of the righteousness of Jesus. The man who is being expelled was called and even responded to the invitation. But, he did not comply with the conditions and thus is not chosen. Verse 14, “Many are called, but few are chosen.” This is similar to the verse in Matthew 7:22-23. Jesus said, “Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you who practice lawlessness!’” These had answered the call and even had an outward showing of righteousness. But putting on the righteousness of Christ begins in the heart. What makes a work a dead work versus a living work? Two people can give money to the poor, but for one it is a dead work of self-righteousness, and for the other a living work of true righteousness. How can that be? It is so because one has only answered the call, but has not walked worthy of the calling. In the end they loved their own clothing. They clung to lawlessness towards God and created a righteousness of their own. Ultimately, the person who is chosen is the one who responds to the call by following Jesus fully. They do not look to a man made list of do’s and don’ts. Rather they are daily listening to the Holy Spirit through the written word, Spirit-filled mentors, and personal prayer. They are allowing the Spirit to undress them of their own self-righteous sin, and to be dressed in the works that are born of the Spirit of God. Don’t be deceived. God is saving us from the lawlessness of self-righteousness. This world reeks of self-righteousness. Let us not think that we can remain the same and Jesus will cover everything when we die. No. True faith is enabled by the Spirit of God to throw off dead works and put on the living works of the Spirit of God, which is the righteousness of Christ.